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Are you the aggressive type of person?

Do you lack the patience required to explain yourself fully? Do you think “well I could be bothered to get educated what’s your story?”
If i sense that the other person isn't even going to attempt to understand me.

I just don't bother lol but i need to stop doing that.
@StanLei the way i grew up, i was always wrong. Even when i made sense lol. I guess it's triggering for me to talk to closed minded people.

But i need to stop avoiding speaking my truth. I need to speak up, and regulate my emotions accordingly instead of avoiding conflict altogether with the premise that no one would understand me anyway.

Issues always arise when i think that way.
StanLei · 26-30, F
@Pressure I would always advocate that you speak your mind and if anyone takes offence, let them explain why they are offended
@StanLei i'm working on it.

🙂
Jessmari · 41-45
As someone who did in home pc repair for awhile you learn to only explain when they ask. The blank stares get unnerving when you think your being helpful and you realize they'd be back soon.
SophSmiles · 22-25, F
Depends on the topic, if I’m upset or sensitive then I have zero patience and can get very aggressive
Pfuzylogic · M
As a past high school teacher, I am very used to getting and telling the full story!
Convivial · 26-30, F
Depends on the person but rarely aggressive... Comes a time in most conversations when you know the other party is not interested in a differing opinion but is merely seeking approval of their own opinion
I'm trying to be more patient as I grow older. It's really a skill to be able to convey that to people ,especially when you don't necessarily share the same views/opinions
BabyDolls · 22-25, T
I used to be but I’ve learnt there’s a time and place for aggression and 90% of the time isn’t either of them
Lol im a shy hermit irl..
REMsleep · 41-45, F
I am extremely patient almost to a fault but I am far less patient with people that are the closest to me who I tell the same thing over and over if it seems like they're not making any effort to work with me.
I do get angry in that case.

Also if I'm alone in my car I sort of pretend to be really impatient sometimes with other drivers but I really don't mean it.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Sometimes I am.
Sometimes I am not.
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