When they take it all.....

Speaking for myself, If I have given several chances but they refuse to change, my breaking point is when I realize they threaten my happiness and peace of mind. No relationship is worth destroying your physical as well as mental health, it's vital to survive the rest of your life. I don't react with violence because that's sinking to their level. Violence makes you blind, acting out in a manner that is irrational and could escalate to the point of killing someone/ breaking the law. So I cross the bridge and burn it behind me. No explanations nor goodbyes, I just cut ties and a no-contact rule. We must decide whether we want to remain a victim or be the victor. I choose the latter.

Anyone is capable of breaking if pushed far enough. It's our differences in self control that defines when. But I believe the longer it takes the more intense and violent the outburst. In most cases of the one doing the pushing gets a well deserved beating for which the aggressor unjustiably ends up paying.

@SledgeHammer yes very true it is not an excuse too spit out your anger when there is no real valid reason too do so

I need a distraction from all the possibilities in my head...