When they take it all.....

..... you've got nothing to lose.
EVERYBODY HAS A BREAKING POINT...

But how does one realize they've reached that breaking point and its not just another excuse for an outburst ?

Is it a pattern for releasing another limitless rampage onto what triggered us. ?

Do we express un uncontrollable tantrum with an attitude that exceeds high levels of frustration which is directed to a target with extreme violence because we've had enough of being passive , holding back so much from deep within ourselves?

Is that the breaking point for most of us?
Is it possible to have a more calming point in which breaks us without a mental explosion?

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Gibbon · 70-79, M

Anyone is capable of breaking if pushed far enough. It's our differences in self control that defines when. But I believe the longer it takes the more intense and violent the outburst. In most cases of the one doing the pushing gets a well deserved beating for which the aggressor unjustiably ends up paying.

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@Gibbon My self control is whats ticking. Back in the day I would not have given it a second thought. Im gonna have to let karma take the front seat on this one because my mentality is spiraling out of control. Inflicting pain is what i feel like doing but i dont want to go outside the law where i might go to far. Because i have nothing to lose anymore but my freedom

Thanks

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@SledgeHammer I read below you feel you have nothing left. That's something we have in common except for much different reasons. Whatever your situation it's not worth totally losing it and giving up your freedom. Take a step back and breathe.

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@Gibbon thats the hardest part...to take a step back , and out of breath when they are standing right in fron of me with a fu*ken smirk on their face.
I managed to do that.. Its good to know someone is listening...thanks

You have no idea how these words you guys share with me help

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@SledgeHammer I don't know the social situation or what controls the proximity but @NativePortlander1970 has provided the best solution if you can explore you're options to create some distance.

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@Gibbon I know that distancing is the best solution and i need the strength for that... But its family... Im gonna see them again eventually..

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@SledgeHammer Something I no longer have but a distant cousin I will never forgive.
You know your world best. Let your mind roam all options and don't be afraid to take a leap into the unknown if need be.