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I Hate Perverts

Anyone notice how most perverted users that come through here are old men aged 40 and higher? I swear, I'd have a lot to spend if I had a dollar for every time some old creep messaged me.

That's the reason I've given up chatting with older guys altogether. I've given them plenty of chances too! I encountered three old men on EP who messaged me and came off as sweet and kind old men at first. But over time, their true colors came to show and they ended up being as pervy as they come.

I'm sure there are some genuinely nice old men on here but I just can't take anymore chances. It's really discouraging when you think you've found a new friend only for them to turn out to be creepy old jerks!
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CoffeeKitty · 26-30, F
@OWTFWN: Lashing out? I only asked you question! And I find you not answering and your defensive reaction a little interesting. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not a pervert, just an arrogant jerk.
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CoffeeKitty · 26-30, F
@OWTFWN: You do that. But only one of us is right.
WoodyAq · M
All men on some level are creeps. But even among the creeps there are some good guys. Older men are what happen to younger men when you steal their idealism and crush their spirit. The perversions are what remain. My advice: make it clear to your "new friends" that you are neither impressed or interested in their perversions and appeal to their spirit and idealism. If they persist, block em, but maybe you cause them to rediscover parts of themselves. For what it is worth, my advice.
WoodyAq · M
Maybe it was. I like to think of myself as an astute observer of the human condition, though.

So are you still idealistic (which makes you an idiot); still have your spirit (which makes you an object of envy, seriously I envy you); or have no perversions (in which case I don't trust you any further than I can throw you).
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
Way to show your true colors Woody. Why not just get a tattoo on your forehead that says. "I'M A COMPLETE ASSHOLE"?
WoodyAq · M
@pinkrainbowkisses: I never said it was her fault. .. just passing on tips about how to avoid unwanted attention.

You appear to have a serious need to pass judgment on people, and appear to assume everyone else is doing the same.

A lot of people here want to express their honest feelings without the burden of judgment.
Tminus6453 · M
The old guys who seek out young ladys to talk to most likely have an agenda...a sexual one at that... the non perverted older guys have no reason to PM you out of the blue unless they really needed to tell you something.. try talking to them next time
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
Well said Tminus.
Yes!! Except the ones I noticed are usually 60+.. nasty ass dirty old men. They're the worst ones.. the younger ones don't even act as perverse as they do. Maybe the old geezers haven't had sex in years or something and kinda desperate.
Enchanted · 56-60, F
LOL 😝👍
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
I just edited my profile to say exactly what you just did! I put it in capital letters. I am so sick of these jerks pretending interest in you and then at about the third message,telling what they're actually interested in.
Carver · 31-35, F
You're absolutely right. Sure perverts come in all ages but that seems to go double for the really old kooks.
Unfortunately, it's probably best to stick with people closer to your age.
Enchanted · 56-60, F
That's sad...but I don't blame you one bit!
GeniUs · 56-60, M
I'm no expert but when you are taking PMs it's usually for intimate reasons. Usually.
Enchanted · 56-60, F
For me...it never starts that way..not my intensions at all!

But almost always ends up going to the sexual
CoffeeKitty · 26-30, F
Intimate in the sense of having private conversation, certainly! But if you mean in the sexual sense, I don't agree. I have had many conversations with people on here that never turned sexual, some of whom I've chatted with for weeks.
@CoffeeKitty: Same here.. I talk to a few guys who I've talked for months now and they have yet to bring up that subject.
Bean17 · 51-55, F
I haven't been here that long (and I'm not even young!) but I've had similar experiences. I say good for you for doing what you feel is best for you!
We're not creepy perverts, we're just drawn that way.
CoffeeKitty · 26-30, F
Well, I didn't say all men 40 and older are like that!
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Not in my opinion, theres a lot vocal 40 year old dirty women. It evens out.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@greenmountaingal: I beg to differ
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@MartinTheFirst: I beg you to tell me their names!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@GeniUs: lmao 😂 thad be rude 😉
FuriousSam · 26-30, M
good for you
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Splendid!
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
I imagine there are just as many young creepy people or at they creepy because they are old.
CoffeeKitty · 26-30, F
No, they're not only creepy because they're old. I didn't say that.

 
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