I Hate Perverts

Anyone notice how most perverted users that come through here are old men aged 40 and higher? I swear, I'd have a lot to spend if I had a dollar for every time some old creep messaged me.

That's the reason I've given up chatting with older guys altogether. I've given them plenty of chances too! I encountered three old men on EP who messaged me and came off as sweet and kind old men at first. But over time, their true colors came to show and they ended up being as pervy as they come.

I'm sure there are some genuinely nice old men on here but I just can't take anymore chances. It's really discouraging when you think you've found a new friend only for them to turn out to be creepy old jerks!

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WoodyAq · M

All men on some level are creeps. But even among the creeps there are some good guys. Older men are what happen to younger men when you steal their idealism and crush their spirit. The perversions are what remain. My advice: make it clear to your "new friends" that you are neither impressed or interested in their perversions and appeal to their spirit and idealism. If they persist, block em, but maybe you cause them to rediscover parts of themselves. For what it is worth, my advice.

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

Speak for yourself Woody. That was fairly telling.

Pinkrainbowkisses · F

@NigelDoes: [c=#BF0080]Oh, he's the one who told me yesterday that a girl who was 18-21 who was complaining about all the perverts pm's was basically her fault because she was wearing a crop top in her avatar. Which yes, some pics are going to get attention.. but it's also up to the men to at least have a little respect imo.[/c]

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

I absolutely agree. One thing that gives men here who aren't creeps or perverts is the fact that it's pretty much ONLY the creeps who pm women without being pm'd first. For that reason, I thing quite a few women here assume that MOST men here are like that.

WoodyAq · M

Maybe it was. I like to think of myself as an astute observer of the human condition, though.

So are you still idealistic (which makes you an idiot); still have your spirit (which makes you an object of envy, seriously I envy you); or have no perversions (in which case I don't trust you any further than I can throw you).

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

Way to show your true colors Woody. Why not just get a tattoo on your forehead that says. "I'M A COMPLETE ASSHOLE"?

WoodyAq · M

@pinkrainbowkisses: I never said it was her fault. .. just passing on tips about how to avoid unwanted attention.

You appear to have a serious need to pass judgment on people, and appear to assume everyone else is doing the same.

A lot of people here want to express their honest feelings without the burden of judgment.