I chose option one since you wrote it the way that you did. Their safety supercedes my privilege. However, it does not supercede my own safety (it is not always about a mere inconvenience). I don't say screw them because they matter.
They will more than likely eventually get sick. They can't hide from it forever. The goal was to slow down the spread and prevent severe cases. They can't control other people, they can do their best to live life as best they can.
I know individuals who had to live in isolation before the pandemic because they had a child with a condition that made them immunocompromised. It's not the ideal way to live but they made the most of it. They did what they needed to do to keep their child alive and healthy. They set boundaries around other people when it came to exposing their child to them in areas that they had domain. This is how I see immunocompromised individuals needing to live their lives, with or without covid. I say this simply because if they focus on what others do they'll end up frustrated. The only thing we have control over is what we do.