It's unfortunate how some people want to make everything- even grief a competition...
However ,I will be compassionate ...
Another ,sister's husband has been diagnosed with cancer and it will end in his death.
Of course I feel compassion and wish it wasn't happening, AGAIN!!
I wish, I couldn't see that she wants to compete on who's the saddest, has had /will have the greatest loss, and I'm not sure she knows that she doesn't have to do that.
Perhaps, it's the only way she can deal with it?
But, whatever the psychology I know how terrible it is to find out your husband has cancer and it can't be cured.
I don't understand why this is happening so often, it feels like soon all our husbands will be dead.
7 sisters only 3 still have husbands and one we now know is on the way out.
And out of the 2 one is in very bad health.
Another ,sister's husband has been diagnosed with cancer and it will end in his death.
Of course I feel compassion and wish it wasn't happening, AGAIN!!
I wish, I couldn't see that she wants to compete on who's the saddest, has had /will have the greatest loss, and I'm not sure she knows that she doesn't have to do that.
Perhaps, it's the only way she can deal with it?
But, whatever the psychology I know how terrible it is to find out your husband has cancer and it can't be cured.
I don't understand why this is happening so often, it feels like soon all our husbands will be dead.
7 sisters only 3 still have husbands and one we now know is on the way out.
And out of the 2 one is in very bad health.
56-60, F
