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Chemo, vs. nothing?

My dad, who was diagnosed last week with an aggressive form of cancer, Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma, has a choice of low dose chemotherapy or no treatment. They do not recommend the low dose currently, Bec even low dose "may" cause infection that can sometimes be fatal. They said hes very compromised being a stroke victim.
But they said we can always get another oncologist who would be ok with doing treatment. It can potentially eradicate much of the cancer.

OR, the option is to not treat it and go into palliative care. I asked how long he might have, they said anything from several weeks to a few months 🙁 My dad initially refused treatment, but after we discussed further, he said hed like to try treatment, and if hes too ill he'll stop.
What might you choose /hope for a loved one? (Of course it's their actual choice overall)
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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Cancer has struck my family. More than once. And I was close to both of them. I've seen what treatment is like and what it does to a person.

So ... To your question ... What would I choose if diagnosed with an aggressive cancer? Easy. I live my life for today. Don't get me wrong, I want to live. But if faced with that kind of diagnosis, I would choose however many quality days I'd have left. They can keep their chemo. 🤷‍♀
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KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@sarabee1995 Yes...live life while some quality then VAD. Which is legal here.