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Chemo, vs. nothing?

My dad, who was diagnosed last week with an aggressive form of cancer, Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma, has a choice of low dose chemotherapy or no treatment. They do not recommend the low dose currently, Bec even low dose "may" cause infection that can sometimes be fatal. They said hes very compromised being a stroke victim.
But they said we can always get another oncologist who would be ok with doing treatment. It can potentially eradicate much of the cancer.

OR, the option is to not treat it and go into palliative care. I asked how long he might have, they said anything from several weeks to a few months 🙁 My dad initially refused treatment, but after we discussed further, he said hed like to try treatment, and if hes too ill he'll stop.
What might you choose /hope for a loved one? (Of course it's their actual choice overall)
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My mother developed an infection from chemo. Complications from chemo took her life.

Chemo saved my sister. It's always a scary, hard decision. Ultimately, it's their decision
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Bexsy I'm so sorry it led to infection for your mom. 🙁 Many sympathies 🌹 Did she also have an aggressive form?
@Coralmist no, she had breast cancer, they gave every indication that she would beat it. Her reaction to the chemo was quick and devastating.

My sister had the aggressive kind. Her treatment was very aggressive.

She is currently doing very well
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Bexsy That is such good news for your sister. Again I'm sorry your mom's reaction, 🌼chemotherapy is so toxic overall, I wish it could target JUST the bad cells.
I didn't want to accept the doctor view yesterday that his body just can't even do the low dose chemo. You'd think you want to extend a person's life any way possible. But I'm seeing more now chemo can be destructive in ways, and he said he'll most likely get an infection, and his life will be ended sooner than if he went to palliative care. I really hate cancer😟 There's Got to be a way to cure it one day.