Do you still remember how you lost your virginity?

Was it fun or numb and or disappointing?

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

I was 19, I was kind of drunk, we'd been clubbing and I had been flirting with one of my brothers friends for several weeks, he was 21. It was not great. He had no clue what he was doing and neither did I. It hurt a lot when he entered me, I told him but he made no attempt to make any adjustments and just said, it always hurts girls first time. I felt really used and dirty. It was a bad choice.

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 Sorry to hear it wasn't a better experience for you.

Northwest · M

@PatientlyWaiting25

it always hurts girls first time

A misconception, but as you stated, a combination of inexperience and alcohol will do that.

During college, I was dating a technical virgin. When we had penetrative sex for the first time, it was at least an hour after we started making out, and lots of oral sex and no alcohol was involved. Everything went smoothly.

She said she was "sore" the next morning, as in it was a little uncomfortable for her to sit down the next day.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@Northwest yeah, I'm sure it would have been better if I had of been properly aroused and he'd took his time like that but he didn't know what he was doing and neither did I. I've had much better experiences since then which is what counts.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 so sorry that happened. SOme guys are only interested in themselves.