are you a ghost?

be honest! and im not talking about this --->👻 i admit if have been a ghost. im not proud. i feel like people say it's ok to be a ghost, but then why do i feel guilty? 😔

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Ghostinthemachine · M

No, never.

I always have the “talk” before ending things or shutting down communication.
I feel everyone deserves some sort of truth rather than being left in limbo, because I’ve been there and it’s not a good feeling.

Lovebird

@Ghostinthemachine same, I never just walk away without talking. And it's rare when I walk away

Matt85 · 36-40, M

do you mean like a lurker?
only when im feeling really down

okay just checked the forum choice, it's not that at all
i ghosted this hot woman once cause i was too scared

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

@AliceinWonderland I guess we don't know what people deserve. Eye for eye leaves the whole world blind, they say. I think that's why it's good to be polite ..but if you really are uncomfortable whether it's cause of them, or with you, it's okay to ghost. They'll heal.

Sometimes people can appreciate honesty but sometimes they will keep pushing!

AliceinWonderland · F

@Matt85 you're right it really depends on the situation.

Iwillwait · M

@AliceinWonderland Rejection will make anyone appear to the other as immature when they have no logical reason given as to why you just stopped all communication. That's psychological warfare of the mind to the person being ghosted.