are you a ghost?

be honest! and im not talking about this --->👻 i admit if have been a ghost. im not proud. i feel like people say it's ok to be a ghost, but then why do i feel guilty? 😔

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

do you mean like a lurker?
only when im feeling really down

okay just checked the forum choice, it's not that at all
i ghosted this hot woman once cause i was too scared

AliceinWonderland · F

@Matt85 no i mean when you are talking to someone that is interested in you or you dated, then you just stop like you block them?

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@AliceinWonderland Yes I did that just once, but only because I was socially anxious. The problem was with me, rather than them.

AliceinWonderland · F

@Matt85 i've heard people say "you owe them nothing. it's ok to ghost." but i also heard if someone ghosts they are immature and you are better off without them."

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@AliceinWonderland I guess we don't know what people deserve. Eye for eye leaves the whole world blind, they say. I think that's why it's good to be polite ..but if you really are uncomfortable whether it's cause of them, or with you, it's okay to ghost. They'll heal.

Sometimes people can appreciate honesty but sometimes they will keep pushing!

AliceinWonderland · F

@Matt85 you're right it really depends on the situation.

Iwillwait · M

@AliceinWonderland Rejection will make anyone appear to the other as immature when they have no logical reason given as to why you just stopped all communication. That's psychological warfare of the mind to the person being ghosted.