1490wayb · 56-60, M
im so glad you have discovered this!! it felt very intimidating for me to earn the attention of someone far more successful than myself. whether business, friendship, or dating.
Gingerbreadspice · F
I don’t think I’ve ever cared about financial status while on a date or even dating. We’re not at the point of saving for a wedding, buying a house or going to Mauritius yet.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Funny, I did almost the exact opposite. I’ll skip the eye candy for a woman that’s self-supporting.
The absolute last thing I want to hear about on a date is all the nice places you’ve been that your ex-husband paid for.
The absolute last thing I want to hear about on a date is all the nice places you’ve been that your ex-husband paid for.
BillyMack · 46-50, M
That’s why I take all my first dates to McDonalds and order from the value meal.
I want to be sure they are into me and not my love of cheap things.
I want to be sure they are into me and not my love of cheap things.
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HumanEarth · F
What, did you used to do a credit check on your date first?
ProudMom46 · 46-50, FNew
@HumanEarth LOL no credit checks 😂
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Money is important but cant buy you love
Convivial · 26-30, F
Enjoy their company instead...
LamontCranston · M
Unless one is thinking about every date as an audition for Significant other or at least longterm relationship, it should not make much difference at all.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
I think to a certain extent it matters cuz it solves a lot of financial headaches down the road if they at least have parity
ProudMom46 · 46-50, FNew
@Longpatrol I’ve always thought that way and it may be true if the relationship goes very long but the turnover rate in post divorce dating is a few months to a year and honestly if dating is going to be a lot more enjoyable when I don’t focus on negatives, I think it’s time well spent.