Is a man who has no money to spend on a woman unworthy ?

Anecdotally it seems that way.

What are your thoughts?

Do you need to have money and resources to 'invest' in someone to a certain level before you are considered worthy of a person's affections?

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Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

Not worthy, but financial literacy is needed to be in a healthy relationship.
Why would a woman want to build a future with someone who can’t save for one?

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Michael1227 in my case I don't have spare resources because I have a mortgage and support my 7 yo daughter. All my money goes there so savings don't really exist.

Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

@zonavar68 upskill, work overtime, new job, don’t sit stagnant.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Michael1227 I do overtime. I am perm part time around my daughter's parenting requirements. I can cover my mortgage and pay the bills. I'm not extravagant. Job pays well - it's shiftwork - don't need to change it just to have money lying around to spend on expensive dating exploits. 8-) If a woman expects her lifestyle to be propped up by a man she's not the right sort of woman. I don't need to be or want to be a Gigachad.

Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

@zonavar68 oh glad to hear! Most woman iv dated don’t require a fancy dinner every night, just effort.