Is a man who has no money to spend on a woman unworthy ?

Anecdotally it seems that way.

What are your thoughts?

Do you need to have money and resources to 'invest' in someone to a certain level before you are considered worthy of a person's affections?

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Achelois · F

Depends on the person?

If people are shallow yes, we live in a world that wants status, fancy cars, money etc.

Those things really shouldn’t matter but society makes us lovers of money and power.

What really matters is love and connection.

Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

Not worthy, but financial literacy is needed to be in a healthy relationship.
Why would a woman want to build a future with someone who can’t save for one?

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Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

@zonavar68 upskill, work overtime, new job, don’t sit stagnant.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Michael1227 I do overtime. I am perm part time around my daughter's parenting requirements. I can cover my mortgage and pay the bills. I'm not extravagant. Job pays well - it's shiftwork - don't need to change it just to have money lying around to spend on expensive dating exploits. 8-) If a woman expects her lifestyle to be propped up by a man she's not the right sort of woman. I don't need to be or want to be a Gigachad.

Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP

@zonavar68 oh glad to hear! Most woman iv dated don’t require a fancy dinner every night, just effort.

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

No. But a woman that only finds wealthy men attractive is vain and untrustworthy. Similarly, A man that only looks for beauty and/or sex from a woman is likely to be very disappointed overall. You need to be able to communicate. There must be empathy, compassion, affection, and similar interests.

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