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Have you ever stopped dating or kept yourself in a shell..

Because you felt you were too broken for anyone to want you?
( Or felt you had too many issues)

💜😢🌷
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sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
Yes, actually. I was single for a few years and convinced I wasn't meant to be in a relationship. Then my girlfriend popped back into my life and saved me from myself. 😁
RosaMarie · 41-45, F
At times, yes. I'm in a good head space now. Except for US politics, but that's not something I want to dwell on. If you are feeling this way, I hope you can find help to get better.
Not experienced this personally but I have thought about the scenario of dating if the time ever came to it and there’s no way I would be interested ~ I’d rather love another fur baby 🥲🥰
JestAJester · 31-35, M
I go back and forth. May stop for a few weeks or months, jump back in for bit, get frustrated or hurt and retreat back to my shell for a little while. Somehow I always recover
itsok · 31-35, F
not for that reasoning that no one would want me, but yes to the rest
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Yeah I have, it`s called marriage. 😬
twiigss · M
Yes but now I want to get out there and meet people
No.

I did so when I was turned into a turtle. However, like Cleese's stint as a newt, "I got better."
Definitely yes.
Iwillwait · M
Yes. I am in that holding pattern now as we speak.
Maybe this will help. I hope you like it. I just wrote it because I know there's so many hurting here.

@Iwillwait https://similarworlds.com/relationships/5273244-Relationship-Basics-For-Hurting-or-Broken-People
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I was never any good at being romantic. I gave up on that about 35 years ago.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
That seems accurate
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
No, I just found other broken people.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Kuronekko I guess they say everyone is broken somehow..but because I have very deep issues, I look at every guy as much more or better than me. 😔 I don't feel enough( when you have many restrictions, anxiety wise, in life) 😟
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Coralmist I have felt like not enough even in the presence of people who clearly don't deserve my presence. You are never enough for someone who is broken. People can only meet you where they are.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Yes the only difference is that no one wants me anyways so Im not gonna bother anymore.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Captainjackass You can't know that no one wants you. 🪻 There are soo many people on this Earth, many would definitely like you or want you🙂
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@Coralmist yeah but the only ones who are interested are people desperate for a green card or drug addicts.
Jessmari · 46-50
9 years ago. Just don't care to play the game anymore.
Or maybe people are too shallow and judgemental to understand real intellect and depth.
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