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Is it possible to find a partner who is fine with not having kids .

I think it's possible only if he is jobless or makes less money ?

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Yes-it IS possible-I would cite the example of longtime standup comedian/"Tonight Show" guest/regular host Jay Leno and his wife-longtime professional writer Mavis. At ages 75 and 78-they have been happily married for 45 years-since 1980.

Jay and Mavis-by virtue of BOTH being multi millionaires-certainly had enough MONEY to raise children-but-obviously-not enough time.

However-I digress-please excuse me.

Maybe it IS possible that your future friend/romantic partner turns out to be jobless-or earns a small amount of money.

In ANY case-if you are comfortable doing so-please let me know how things turn out.

Best wishes. :)

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@cuteblondegreyguy sure, I will post here if I get a partner in future !

Elisbch · M

I think so. There is a trend that many men are avoiding marriage to literally avoid divorce. I can't speak for all men, but I would think that taking kids out of the equation (providing that's what they want to do), would make it even easier on the relationship. (imho).
I did not want kids.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Elisbch which country you from?

Elisbch · M

@sahi81

Several actually, for now, the US.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Yes it is. Have a niece who didn’t want kids and got married after college. She later changed her mind though, and they ended up divorcing because he didn’t change his mind.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

I wish

Northwest · M

In 2023, a Pew Research Center survey found that 47% of U.S. adults younger than 50 who are not parents said they are unlikely to ever have children, up from 37% in 2018.

dale74 · M

Why do you not want kids

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 I want to file a case to get help conduct investigations first to collect evidence.

You sound very mean though... you seem aggressive.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 i will be independent soon. You don't have to tell me that.

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OrionInTheNight

I hate kids.

There are alot of people who don't want kids.

Kids ruin people's lives.

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OrionInTheNight

@sahi81 I live in the United States of America

OrionInTheNight

@sahi81 kids ruin people's lives tho

everyone I know who had kids is now broke and stressed out

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@OrionInTheNight now a days people don't make as much as the cost of living. No wonder they can't afford. Unless earn a lot or sure of having enough money to raise kids without neglect , one shouldn't have kids according to me

dale74 · M

It is possible but most of the time women that want that working brothels

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 I want that but i am not working brothels ..

SomeMichGuy · M

It has little to do with money and much to do with contraception...

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SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 ALL forms of birth control can fail

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@SomeMichGuy I see. Maybe then only any operation works.

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 Sometimes, even THOSE end up growing back.

The snip of the guy changes the ejaculate but it is less invasive, and can be reversed (though you might want to say that up front).

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