Is it possible to find a partner who is fine with not having kids .

@dale74 I think someone did mind-reading experiments on me , that whoever I come across can read my mind. I feel stressed out by that thought. I just feel comfortable with having an understanding partner who respects my feelings and wishes.

@sahi81 well why do you feel you are so special that they did experiments on you I am sure they didn't do that

@dale74 If I have kids and they see whatever bad things happened to me or see everything going inside my mind... and also i feel people can see others minds through me... I am scared if someone does anything to my kids or harassed them by reading through my mind.

@dale74 I think/suspect my own father did... He is a fame hungry person and abusive type. I always questioned why something like this only should happen to me...

@dale74 He often accuses me of having sex with every guy/man that come across in my life including plumbers and drivers even when i didn't . He didn't sexually abused me... He mostly physically and emotionally abused me.

@sahi81 well I don't know what to tell you to do then have you confronted him told him how you feel

@dale74 He is fame hungry... I am thinking of filing case on him and conducting investigations if they take me seriously.

@sahi81 sounds to me like you're overcompensating

@dale74 I want to confront him soon, i think he might lie and not admit that he was the one who did. I shouted on him once, why he did shitty experiments on me and ruined my life and that I will file case on him , he said he will also file case on me because I'm not leaving home. I will soon confront him more and try to make him tell me what and how he did , I want to get it removed if possible. If he doesn't tell, I want to report and make conduct investigations on him if they take me seriously. It's scary because what if his company was involved because he works at research related company... what if someone does something to me if I report.

@dale74 what can i do.... ?? Idk what to do, I think he will lie if I ask him

@sahi81 you need to pack your stuff and move out

@dale74 that's what I did... I am now living with my mother..

@dale74 I told my mother about his experiments, I asked her if I should report, she said she feels scared to do that so just ignore/leave it ...

@dale74 idk what to do...I wish I can take the experiment out... but sometimes I feel it might have no solution...

I'm need to take FMRI... To get my brain checked... my told a psychiatrist about it.

I feel hopeless.... I feel the experiment making my life harder ... All i want is a good partner who is willing to tolerate reading my mind... :(

@sahi81 maybe you need to realize you're not a little child anymore and you need to start taking care of yourself

@dale74 what you mean by that? In what way I need to take care of myself?

@sahi81 support yourself and pay all your own bills

@dale74 I need to get a job first, I'm right now trying to develop my skills to start looking for jobs.

@dale74 btw I don't want to rely on a partner financially. I just want a partner to spend time with if I like him and if he is willing to tolerate the things I have...

@sahi81 I didn't say to rely on somebody else I said do it on your own

@dale74 do what ...and why

@sahi81 move out support yourself all on your own

@dale74 I am trying but why u think that's important for me? Is it because you think my mother is not very supportive? I don't blame her tbh... she seems scared.

@sahi81 if you live in your father's house then you need to quit disrespecting him