Is it possible to find a partner who is fine with not having kids .

I think it's possible only if he is jobless or makes less money ?

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SomeMichGuy · M

It has little to do with money and much to do with contraception...

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy I mean if he don't have money, how will he provide for kids. He might choose to not have. I have seen poor people too have kids... maybe it's a personal choice.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy btw were you joking or being serious or both?

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 I was pointing out that kids can happen regardless of any representations.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy you are using complex english, I can't understand... this time too.

Can you make it simple 😅

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 It does not matter what someone SAYS about having kids, it is about what someone DOES.

pregnancies happen

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy I see. Got it ! I did hear some westerners saying about having unwanted pregnancies with their gf. Maybe they are being careless or did something wrong not knowing.

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 ALL forms of birth control can fail

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy I see. Maybe then only any operation works.

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 Sometimes, even THOSE end up growing back.

The snip of the guy changes the ejaculate but it is less invasive, and can be reversed (though you might want to say that up front).

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@SomeMichGuy in females reproductive organs inside end up growing back?

SomeMichGuy · M

@sahi81 No, but the standard procedure for both women and men is not removal of the ovaries or testes, respectively, but modifying the tubes from them.

From https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tubal_ligation--

Tubal ligation (commonly known as having one's "tubes tied") is a surgical procedure for female sterilization in which the fallopian tubes are permanently blocked, clipped or removed. This prevents the fertilization of eggs by sperm and thus the implantation of a fertilized egg. Tubal ligation is considered a permanent method of sterilization and birth control.

It further says it is "sometimes reversible", and the failure rate over one year is 0.5% (1 in 200).

For men, from https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy--

Vasectomy is an elective surgical procedure that results in male sterilization, often as a means of permanent contraception. During the procedure, the male vasa deferentia are cut and tied or sealed so as to prevent sperm from entering into the urethra and thereby prevent fertilization of a female through sexual intercourse.

This is reported as "possibly" reversible, and has a failure rate over one year of 0.1 ‐ 0.15% (1 in 1,000 to 1 in 667, or 3.3 ‐ 5 times more effective than a tubal ligation).