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My guy friend said I was his girlfriend but I don’t want a boyfriend

So I know it was a joke but when my guy friend and his mom came over we all had a chat and caught up since we know each other well.
My dad asked my guy friend if he had a girlfriend and he said no. He was like why not. He looked stroked. Then he said that I was his girlfriend. My face got bright red. I was like, “Oh we’re a thing now?” His mom said, “Well you know now.” My dad hugged him. I know they’re just joking but now I’m kind of upset. Nothing wrong with my guy friend but I don’t see him that way. I never dad. I know he liked me back then but he never called or asked in on a date. He asked he to go to the school dance several times. I did go with him twice but we’re JUST FRIENDS. My dad knows I’m single. What if my guy friend really asks me out! I love being single.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
Your parents see him as boyfriend material and are giving you a very crude (and cringy) hint.

It's not the guy's fault.

Just in case, you should probably drop a clear hint to your friend that you don't see him that way.
Elessar · 26-30, M
Reason 56,498th why I avoid introductming friends to family, especially the opposite gender
dale74 · M
If you get along with him and he's one of your best friends might as well go out with him. Make a list of all the things you don't like about him why you would never date him then make a list of all the reasons why you would date him if you were interested in dating someone.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@dale74 I’m not going out with him. Never happening
JacksonBlue · 36-40, M
Honesty is always best. Tell him it made you feel uncomfortable and that you like him but don't see a future with him romantically.

Its a hard thing to bring up but from experience if you don't nip it in the bud, this things only get harder.
I was wondering, then saw your profile image.
DefNotTravelguy · 41-45, M
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
If he asks you out, you should be honest with him. By honest, I mean bluntly honest. Lot of guys don't take hints well when they like someone.

 
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