Feeling sad 32yrs old and never had a girlfriend

@LaraChel ok 👌

@EPreject already have worked on myself. I have a great physique and make a lot of money.

@Strike30 I do have hobbies, gym is one. I do also go to dance classes and yoga sometimes. Did go to speed dating event yesterday, very few women but no matches. I don't worry too much, just trying to enjoy myself and keep winning more money. If I become multi millionaire in future can always buy women as well I guess for arrangements.

@Dignaga I'm guessing a sugar baby is an option, problem with that is its the same thing as prostitution

@ghostsforglory Naw, reason I suggested getting two steady strippers as a regular is because one is bound to string you along. You are looking for one who took up stripping to pay for the bills because her only skillset is the dancing classes she got as a little girl. They are used to socially akward men with low social skills.

Get a old used cargo van, buy two electric bicycles, and two hammocks, and invite one bicycling after a while. On a trail you know. The electric assist makes it easier to accept incase they poop out. I used to ask them out for a bottle of snapple.

Give them something to do. They don't have much of a social life, old frkends cut them off, alot of prospect boyfriends won't like they are dancing.

Also, 99% of women are prostitutes looking for a sugar daddy. Yeah, they will eatch movies like pride and prejudice, and act like anyman with the right attitude can win them over, but the vast majority have a mercenary puss and will go to the highest bidder. They are upward social mountain climbers, and white women are no exception to this. You get pissed off women aren't dating you but at the same time note one of your virtues is having 6 didget pay. The average white guy with a house and suburban housewife is a sugar daddy. She is only with him for the financial security. I'm not saying she doesn't feel love, she thinks it is just that, but it isn't a deep love. She'll not hesitate to file for divorce over some triffling and rake him over the coals, and the stupid guy will be made to blame for it all.

The one time I made a woman crazy wild for me, it was when I was standing outside of a Texas Roadhouse in Steubenville, Ohio. This place to be exact:


A shoplifter came running out of the mall carrying a box, and security was screamkng stop. I was standing with my god mother.

He ran past me, 20 feet behind. My god mother said someone should do something, and I shrugged my shoulders and said fine, and slow jogged after him (bad knee) and he saw me and jumled over the hill into the thickets across the road. I sfood at the top and said fuck jt, and jummled down like Mario into the bryer patches and he screamed and went down into a little holow under them,ow crawling. I followed. It was dusk when this started. It ended with the people in line turning into a crowd and me returning with his shoe, and cut up all over. They could hear the guy screaming to let him go, but he was a slippery little F. Once he got out of my sight but I coukd still hear him I called the cops and tried coordinating with them to route him off but they never showed. I kept the shoe.

There was a bunch of people really impressed when I returned, but I wasn't interested, covered in burrs and dirt. Went home, returned the next night, and one of the waitresses ten years younger was obsessed with me. Why? Her dad was a sheriff (she didn't say which one but I was like F No, had a good guess who) and was clearly aroused by crime fighting men. I was just beginning my period of social isolation I wouldn't come out of for years. I just remember looking at her so aroused and silently nodded my head.

Bug problem with such a girl is it's a non-financial attraction, and I would always have to be the tough guy protector. I wasn't cop material. I don't like the judicial system. I really didn't want to wear a uniform again. Alot of my family did that. That's a full time pretend gig.

So in order to keep that girl, I'd have to be someone else other than me.

Who am I? Alot of things. I would hope a woman would love me for some of it someday, and not be so shallow as to leave me alone in it. A mutual partner.

A stripper can do this. Again, not the crazy party girls. I'm talking the ones who just got into it for the money out kf necessity. They really lost alot of normality and just want to be normal again. Alot of madams of brothels used to marry their older women off to clients who were obviously into that sort of woman, and they often made a good match. The modern esclrt service isn't quite structured that way anymore, with brothels so that won't work, but you get the idea. If you think your money is one of your virtues, and just want a relationship, target one of the more sane strippers who feels isolated herself. Learn about her, make friends. Make sure she responds to more than just money. Don't even mention how much you make until you guys are regularly talking about other stuff. If she only leaves you to visit one of her regulars and returns consistently after to sit and talk with you, you likely have a decent one.

Also, ignore 80% of what the women have to say on this site. I blocked half of them, garbage flows from their mouths. They are here because they too suck at relationships, and they got a puss, which makes having a relationship and friends with other women normally easy. They suck at it, come here, act like the queen bee and dispense idiotic advise to one another about men and what their true intentions or inner psychology is, and it's all crap. So I'd ignore them. Half the women here aren't even women, they are guys pretending to be women.

I'd suggest the stripper route for a while just to get used to talking with women. Look at places like meetup.com if you have any hobbies local women might be into. Take up pottery (you can get a kiln for $400, and a potters wheel isn't expensive) or painting or whatever you'ld like a woman to be into, and get involved with the community. I recall my best friend in the Army and I (we had the same first name and looked alike) used to go to a pottery place down the street from our barracks. We would make pottery from Seattle Clay or Vases. After I broke up with my long time girlfriend this young pretty Lt. would come in and join us. This went on for a few months until she got screamed at by some major for fraternizing with the lower enlisted. We never saw her again, but the next time we met up there after she was banned from hanging out with us he said to me "Well, I guess we're not gonna DP her" and I said "Probably not". We never sexually flirted with her or mentioned her when she wasn't around but she was often on our mind. Pottery places abound in cities. You can affors to open up your own studio. You can get into glass blowing. Sell crap art, and go to art open houses and have your fake ass art displayed and stand next to it as college gis sip wines and scrutinize it acting like they are art experts (seen it happen alot). Lots of ways to get women's attention.

My problem is I do history and philosophy and if they hear philosophy they will either talk about existentialist or go into a feminist triade (if they claim they are into women's rights it means they will abort anything that moves, not a good pick for starting a family). I've never met one with a deep understanding of history, I've met women with masters in history, but all had a very shallow grasp on history. I just keep aloof for the most part. I might get a pirtable kiln and make pottery on the side and sell it at some art gallery to meet a woman, but most women into art these days smoke pot to be more "creative" and that's gonna piss me off.

Just think of the type of woman you want, and with your pay, expect a sugar daddy relationship. Even a low wage factory worker in a long term relationship with another woman is paying for it. She's taking all his pay, kids or not. Baskin Robbins ain't free.

@Dignaga thanks for the advice. To be honest what you say is true, there is no such thing as unconditional love from women

People laugh at sugar daddies but really those men are smart, they can use their money to get really hot and young girls for long term arrangements and have fun.

@ghostsforglory you seem also to obsess about race. Doesn't seem like that's a thing most people actually care about as much as used to when I was younger so I suppose it's something else. It's you're perception of women has been ruined by porn and escorts and you confused 🤔 it. Again drop those pick up books not even self help but couldn't hurt and go do things not online online isn't real life at all no matter what anyone says.

@Tahitiangrandma yh I am starting to be bit more social now. Like I say for many years I found it more convenient to just see an escort instead of doing anything social. But got tired of that now. Socialising on general has been shown to improve mental health. I went to speed dating event yesterday and talked to the girls there. Didn't get any matches but was a good social outing. Do you think if I become a multi millionaire before the age of say 46 and I still stay in really good shape when I am 46 that I will be able to attract younger women from 20-30 at the age of 46? Currently I'm 32.

@ghostsforglory oh Hun you seem to be trying to go down better path. I'm very happy to hear you say no more about the escorts and the porn also I hope. But the point is that a real woman of any age is not just interested in money. You don't want that yes sure chase youre millions etc and your dreams but any woman who is focused on that is a golddigger and also not worth the time or effort and would just drain you and that's not real either. A real woman a real person shares you hopes and dreams appreciates you're quirkyness and hangups and is willing to struggle with you even in the bad times

@sylvsn59 I live in UK. In high school never really met any girls. I started watching porn from early age, don't watch it now. From early age I just viewed women as sex objects as that is how they were portrayed in the media and porn. University as well I stayed at home and travelled to university each day, didn't meet any girls there. Always worked from home.

@ghostsforglory Interesting, i travelled to college as well and worked after classes before returning home. I guess the difference I see is the internet and porn. Didnt have internet back then and while porn was available it was more magazines and movies you had to go rent. Most interaction back then was directly with people/girls.

@ghostsforglory agree on the last part. I realised 6 years ago that my relationships were over as I chose to be a parent again in my 40's whereas almost all women in their 40's are desperate to become empty nesters and want everyone to pander to them.

@zonavar68 maybe best option for me is to just become a sugar daddy down the line. At least that way you have all the power to select hot young girls in their 20s that you want. Romantic love is a big myth anyway, women are not capable of unconditional love. Prostitution actually reveals the true nature of women in my view.

@ghostsforglory that seems harsh but maybe this is why feminism is so toxic and anti-men... I know my situation is a result of my choices so I accept that.

@userfawkes1105 sex is nothing too special, I've had sex loads of times with lots of good looking girls. More important is actual emotional attraction that you have to build without directly paying money. Part of problem is as I started seeing escorts from early age I never really bothered with normal dating all this time. Online dating would have worked for me if I was white but it is what it is.

@Beautywithin online dating only works for white men. I am technically top 1 percent man and get no results from online dating as I only like white women.

As an experiment I put up a shirtless pic of a muscular white man and got loads of matches , that says a lot. I have great physique and tall but I am brown.

Only way for me is to become a sugar daddy down the line or try and be more social and talk to lots of women in social environments.

@ghostsforglory hmm. as an advanced bodybuilder maybe you appeal to fewer women. they are fickle about appearances. sure they say they aren't. but...they say a lot of things. you say you are getting numbers. that is a good start. it shows they are reciprocating. Maybe try developing and showcasing other areas besides your appearance? sewing, pottery, or macrame just for example. wear sweaters and pretend to be a Spaniard. they love faux Eurotrash.