Why Do Most Women Think, their past (i.e their sexual history) doesn’t/shouldnt matter to the man they are currently Dating?
Any good reasons
26-30, M
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SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
because the past is past and the future is now. (BOOM! Joe Dirt reference). Any valid reason that it should matter?
SilentObZerver · 26-30, M
@SarahAndSamantha Can you detach someone’s past from their present state or even future?
Your statement, presupposes that, everyone’s past regardless of whatever they did should be completely ignored....bcos they are in the "present"
No one builds or forms their personality without an impact or influence from their past...
Yet you wouldnt wanna be with someone without knowing their personality...will you?
Your statement, presupposes that, everyone’s past regardless of whatever they did should be completely ignored....bcos they are in the "present"
No one builds or forms their personality without an impact or influence from their past...
Yet you wouldnt wanna be with someone without knowing their personality...will you?
SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
@SilentObZerver yes, I do want to know their personality.........now. That's the person I'm with now, I'm not with that person in the past. And honestly, who they did or didn't have sex with in the past, doesn't do much to their personality. They had sex. Most of us have. Really doesnt matter to me
SilentObZerver · 26-30, M
@SarahAndSamantha
Just like Rome wasn't built in day....but started on one fateful
Means people dont form or develop their personality in a day, what they are now or how they behave maybe based on who or what they were in the past.
The probability of someone who cheated on her exes, cheating on her current girlfriend is very high compared to someone who nver cheated before....
Yes people do change over time, but people hardly change.....
"They had sex, most of us have"
True!,
But the reasons for engaging in the sex , the type of sexual activity and the way and manner the sex happened may not be the same.....
A sex worker who haf sex for the bucks cannot be the same as the person who slept around for the fun of it.
Just like Rome wasn't built in day....but started on one fateful
Means people dont form or develop their personality in a day, what they are now or how they behave maybe based on who or what they were in the past.
The probability of someone who cheated on her exes, cheating on her current girlfriend is very high compared to someone who nver cheated before....
Yes people do change over time, but people hardly change.....
"They had sex, most of us have"
True!,
But the reasons for engaging in the sex , the type of sexual activity and the way and manner the sex happened may not be the same.....
A sex worker who haf sex for the bucks cannot be the same as the person who slept around for the fun of it.
ArtieKat · M
@SilentObZerver Since you appear to be so concerned about females' sexual histories, perhaps you'll be brave enough here to confess (anonymously) how many women you have had sexual intercourse with, and at what age you lost your virginity?
I noticed that you that didn't do @Ananke the courtesy of replying to her very polite question:
I noticed that you that didn't do @Ananke the courtesy of replying to her very polite question:
Why do you think it should matter? Just curious and want to hear your perspective. Not trying to attack.
SilentObZerver · 26-30, M
@ArtieKat well will gladly wish you tell