anybody remember the dating world where you'd ask a girl to dance at a nightclub and she...

SW-User

I gave up on dating because every single man on tinder is the same. If it doesn't happen naturally, I'm good alone.

exexec · 70-79, C

When I was a young teenager, about to ask a girl for a date to a dance for the first time, I asked my older teen sister for help. She told me what to say, and I wrote it down. I called, read from my script, and Judy accepted the invitation, obviously reading from notes she got from her older sister.

SW-User

I miss those days, people actually put effort into getting to know each other and spent time together. Now it’s “oh look something shiny” mentality.

FreestyleArt · 36-40, M

My first date was in 10th grade. just because my looks. She had to slobber all over my beautiful face. I was very irritated, I didn't want to hurt her feelings though since Humans have Feelings. It's like I don't want to hurt her feelings.

It didn't work out couple weeks later. Maybe my autism don't understand feelings.

Also it was my first date. What do they expect?

eMortal · M

Funny thing is now, even if you meet her in person first, she’d ask for your instagram/facebook to “know you better” before moving any further!!
Online is the new real world!😤

Northwest · M

No, but I do remember going to clubs, where girls would be there on their own, and asking them to dance, and if things worked out right, we would end up at her place or mine.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

I asked the guy I liked for a dance once. I don't wait for a guy to come to me. That can take forever unless he gets really drunk but then he's unable to stand up or dance.