SageWanderer · 70-79, M
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PoetryNEmotion · F
@SageWanderer Please do it with care for your heart and with lots of good humor. I hope you are coping well my friend. My thoughts are with you.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@PoetryNEmotion I’m doing well so far. Probably due to the amount of paperwork to do and phone calls that need to be made. I’m sure it will hit me later like the end of February or first of March. Everything will be fine and still dead of winter.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SageWanderer You need me, you know how to. You haven't had time to fully feel this. Once you run out of obligations and the rest, you will. Be safe.
beermeplease · M
melissa001 · 56-60, F
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@beermeplease no, but in all honesty I haven’t been on a dating site in over 2 years, maybe some of them have manners again. 🤷🏻♀️
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
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I think any age group can find a date as long as you are patient looking for someone. They might just use you temporarily then look for a younger person. It depends on the guy. Most guys rather have a younger woman so just being a friend to them is better than anything romantic. Lol
PoetryNEmotion · F
Sojournersoul · M
@PoetryNEmotion I agree with you. Not going to settle either.
hertoy · 70-79, M
@PoetryNEmotion I did think we were friends and I don't understand your quick dismissal and apparent anger at me.
Regardless, I wish you well & miss the friendship we once had.
Regardless, I wish you well & miss the friendship we once had.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@hertoy Because you dropped our friendship. You did. How can I be friends with someone who does this? You abruptly stopped messaging me when I indicated I wasn't interested in what you wanted. You know what I am talking about. You figured I wasn't worth talking to anymore. Or whatever the Hades you thought. After all this time that we have known each other. So you made your choice. I do not need a "friend" like that. I am not angry. Mostly disappointed. I told you why I wasn't interested. You are too old for me. I am not packing up to move to be with someone who does crap like this. If online you do this, what would you do in person? That remains to be seen. You miss what you broke. Then miss it. I have friends who want relationships deeper with me, and they still act like friends because they ARE my friends whether I want romance or not. You seem to have no clue. That is why I removed your friendship designation here. I hope you have learned a valuable lesson.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I'm 55, and for me dating basically ceased the day I turned 50 in mid 2018 (the day I left my second ex) and really stopped nearly two years before that to be fully truthful as there was no positive sex life going on at all since she found out she was pregnant in early 2017.
It's basically not possible to find women interested in me with my situation, so I don't try and I don't think any woman I've seen in passing has ever expressed interested or attempted to flirt with me to get my attention. I try to be the best dad I can for my 6 y/o daugther. Women don't get attracted to me as a single dad with a young daughter even though there's a myth that it's supposed to be an erotic attractor for women allegedly.
It's basically not possible to find women interested in me with my situation, so I don't try and I don't think any woman I've seen in passing has ever expressed interested or attempted to flirt with me to get my attention. I try to be the best dad I can for my 6 y/o daugther. Women don't get attracted to me as a single dad with a young daughter even though there's a myth that it's supposed to be an erotic attractor for women allegedly.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
When you get to 50, you realise dating is so ho-hum that you can really forget about it having any significant place in your life and just let it become one of the many interests a person has once they become 'officially mature' (50+).
I've had no dating success for over 10 yrs now (when I met my last partner who I seperated from 5 yrs later).
I've had no dating success for over 10 yrs now (when I met my last partner who I seperated from 5 yrs later).
PoetryNEmotion · F
@zonavar68 Maybe it is ho hum for you not for me. I am an attractive, happy person who embraces life. I hope to find a suitable life partner. Meanwhile I live life and continue to evolve.
justlooking2023 · 56-60, M
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AlienWhiteP0wer · 36-40, M
I’m 36 and I don’t anticipate true dating until I’m well past 50
aloneinUK · 51-55, M
Only just started trying, no luck so far
melissa001 · 56-60, F
I gave up. Every guy makes sure you know they are very " sexual" lol. Aren't all men? But I kept being coralled into a certain age category instead of being able to choose the age group that I'm more interested in. Got to be too much of a hassle.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Nope!
ayushiest · 26-30, F
nICE thread
edwardwieczorek · 61-69, M
no
hertoy · 70-79, M
Dangerous ground...It seems the older ladies are looking for a sugar daddy.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
when your over 50 it takes more time to get to sex its more like both man and woman are seducing each other
Degbeme · 70-79, M
That would get me killed by the wife. 😬