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Should I breakup with my boyfriend?

I'm currently dealing with relationship issues involving my boyfriend. Despite forgiving him for cheating last year, he broke his promise to have no contact with the person he cheated with. I caught him chatting with her using a new number. It's a complicated situation because I genuinely love him, and we have a child together. I desperately want my child to have a father figure in their life.
If you don't trust him don't be with him.
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@Spoiledbrat this here
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
Maybe he is not the right father figure for him...
Maybe he does not love you to the same extent... or something changed on his side.
Maybe in future, your child would suffer more to see you in pain...
Can you live and thrive in a relationship where your husband communicates with other women?
What about a chance at meeting a new person who would respect and love you with the same selflessness you love your husband? If you stay, you close that door. If you leave, you will grieve but you will not go to sleep anxious about the feelings and deeds of your own husband behind your back. Talk to him. Ask him to be honest and tell you if he loves her. Tell him that you are grown adults and you can handle this honestly and properly and he does not have to hide the truth. Be honest with your heart too. Wishing you the best possible outcome.
4meAndyou · F
You should go to couples therapy and try to resolve these issues. Spend a minimum of two years working on that...because you have a child together.
joahola98wj · 31-35, F
Aren't you a father figure to your child? Do you mean that you want your child to have two parents? Cheating is unacceptable. I suggest you break up with your boyfriend then give yourself time to grieve the relationship before dating again. Love can blind you from a partner's red flags. After a lot of time has passed, you'll realize how bad the relationship was, how it made you feel, the pain of being betrayed, the worry of your partner cheating again.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Once a cheater always a cheater
Catzgano · 31-35, F
Move on he’s showing you who he is
Adrift · 61-69, F
Well, its sounds like he has already proven what is important to him by choosing to go behind your back again. What kind of father figure is that?
I have learned from my own mistakes that we teach our kids how to treat or how to be treated by someone.
BigImo · 22-25, F
You should break up with him if you don't trust him, and he should break up with you cos you seems pretty controlling
dale74 · M
Well your child will have you and him and if it was through adoption then you are both equally responsible.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
None of us should make that decision for you. Are the two of you seeing a counsellor?
Could you cuckold him and find a guy who loves and cherishes you?
Sam17 · 18-21, M
Get rid of him. He hasn't changed
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
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