Should I breakup with my boyfriend?

I'm currently dealing with relationship issues involving my boyfriend. Despite forgiving him for cheating last year, he broke his promise to have no contact with the person he cheated with. I caught him chatting with her using a new number. It's a complicated situation because I genuinely love him, and we have a child together. I desperately want my child to have a father figure in their life.

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F

Maybe he is not the right father figure for him...
Maybe he does not love you to the same extent... or something changed on his side.
Maybe in future, your child would suffer more to see you in pain...
Can you live and thrive in a relationship where your husband communicates with other women?
What about a chance at meeting a new person who would respect and love you with the same selflessness you love your husband? If you stay, you close that door. If you leave, you will grieve but you will not go to sleep anxious about the feelings and deeds of your own husband behind your back. Talk to him. Ask him to be honest and tell you if he loves her. Tell him that you are grown adults and you can handle this honestly and properly and he does not have to hide the truth. Be honest with your heart too. Wishing you the best possible outcome.