Should I breakup with my boyfriend?

I'm currently dealing with relationship issues involving my boyfriend. Despite forgiving him for cheating last year, he broke his promise to have no contact with the person he cheated with. I caught him chatting with her using a new number. It's a complicated situation because I genuinely love him, and we have a child together. I desperately want my child to have a father figure in their life.

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joahola98wj · 36-40, F

Aren't you a father figure to your child? Do you mean that you want your child to have two parents? Cheating is unacceptable. I suggest you break up with your boyfriend then give yourself time to grieve the relationship before dating again. Love can blind you from a partner's red flags. After a lot of time has passed, you'll realize how bad the relationship was, how it made you feel, the pain of being betrayed, the worry of your partner cheating again.