About men who like to date BBWs

i have dated skinny, fat, curvy, athletic, average, etc. as a general rule, i tend to date women in the 170-200 range........ what many would consider fat, but, i would consider curvy. its just my preference, and if they want to lose weight, thats fine, if thats what makes them feel good, i support them. both me and my gf are both currently trying to lose weight and we support each other by holding each other accountable for what we eat. in the end, its whats inside a persons heart anyway.

I can't say if it's a common thing or not. I would say probably not. For me I am a very picky person about a woman's personality and I've encountered many women who have a problem with their personality. I've noticed that many of the "Hot" women who spend hours in front of the mirror with their hair and makeup... Seem to usually be trying to cover up a horrible personality with a beautiful look. And on the contrary, the majority of us men seem to be all about the so-called "perfect body" and "beautiful looks". Men are very visual. I understand this well but I don't understand why I'm not like that. There's plenty of things I don't even understand about myself. But, I think of this like a car that has a fresh paint job. Just because it has a new paint job and is absolutely beautiful... Chances are good that it's still a worn out car underneath that paint job. I've seen many people buy a junk car because they thought it was so great with that new paint job.
As for me, I absolutely hate the words "chubby chaser". That's quite an insult. When I see a woman with a beautiful smile and a beautiful heart.. one who is truly caring and helpful and not out for the Free Ride... Well, that makes everything else about her soooo beautiful. Sadly enough and from my own experience... This trait seems to be quite hard to find anymore. And it's really gotten worse in just a few short years. In my opinion, I don't have to have a big woman and I don't have to have a small women. I'm just sick of all the pain and drama that comes from a horrible personality and want a woman who has a good heart. A helper and a lover. I do believe that the bigger women struggle to find men because of the stereotype garbage that comes from Hollywood television and commercials from our medical industries. People buy into this crap and it screws their brains up. Some of us can really step out and see the big picture though. I think that the bigger women probably would appreciate finding a man and taking care of him and keeping him around. But then the problem also is that men aren't perfect either. We can be self-centered pieces of crap, unfortunately just like women can be too. To quickly sum this all up.... I really wish things were like they used to be. When people knew how to love from the heart and not from the eyes. The days before the internet and the cell phone. The days when they enforced laws on what Hollywood could put on TV. The days when doctors cared about helping people and not just about how to make the most money. 😢

For me its more of whats in the heart that matters. People have changed so fast in the last 20 years that there always seems to be strings attached. What ever happened to love from the heart? In my findings from so many dates that its always about the benefits. If we could love doing things together and love together and take care of each other and just enjoy life together without the drama and she is clean and at least try to be pretty... then her body shape size origin or height doesnt matter to me. And I dont care what other people think about it. But im just burnt out on wasting my time. Im not looking anymore. She will have to find me.

I ain't personally a chubby chaser, but I just can't imagine dating someone I wasn't attracted to. I'd really rather be alone. Based on that, I have to just assume they're simply attracted to fat people, but obviously I can't read minds.

There's big, and there's big. I wouldn't over think it trying to compare that situation to your own relationship.

I have dated many BBW, and it was because I found them attractive. I've dated thin women, because I found them attractive.
But that's just me, I certainly don't speak for all men.

Men and indeed women often have a type, a figure they find attractive. If you dating or married to a 600lbs woman it’s likely you love a supersized body and the though of them getting smaller means they will not be as attractive.
Also at that size there is a care dynamic between the two that will change and change is often a challenge, It is no different from a husband complaining that his slim wife has become fat.
I have always adored the supersize lady and have had problems in relationships with weight loss

I don't like that size but meat and potatoes are good.. health is a big part but it's the inside that make a person not the cover. Covers change. I'm NOT the 19 year old any more.

Some people like the feeling that they are the end all be all for someone. Makes them feel important. Also, some fell in love before they became 600lbs. Love is strong!

Sounds terrible

It’s because I genuinely find them to have a great personality and I happen to like having something to hold onto

I just date someone I am comfortable with... and she the same with me.... weight / size doen't matter... it's what is inside that counts.

That sounds toxic. That guy preferring her to remain morbidly obese just so there's less of a chance of her leaving.

I know some men like women with a bit more meat on them. I don't know any that date a larger woman due to confidence.