About men who like to date BBWs

Is it because you're truly attracted to big women, or because you're insecure that a fit woman wouldn't want to be with you? 🤔

I'm watching My 600 lb Life and the husband of the 600 lb woman just said he isn't excited about her losing weight because he is afraid that once she's no longer big, she will leave him. It makes me wonder if that is a common thing in men who date big women.

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deadgerbil · 26-30, M

That sounds toxic. That guy preferring her to remain morbidly obese just so there's less of a chance of her leaving.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@deadgerbil agreed

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@deadgerbil it’s a weird form of abuse for sure… because you know he was probably enabling her (bringing her all the foods she wants to keep her where he wants her)

deadgerbil · 26-30, M

@WaryWitchWandering yeah, the feederism and encouraging that type of lifestyle. It's essentially keeping someone disabled in a sense and under their influence. And I've seen it on here how some dudes will make excuses for really bad cases of obesity.