I can't say if it's a common thing or not. I would say probably not. For me I am a very picky person about a woman's personality and I've encountered many women who have a problem with their personality. I've noticed that many of the "Hot" women who spend hours in front of the mirror with their hair and makeup... Seem to usually be trying to cover up a horrible personality with a beautiful look. And on the contrary, the majority of us men seem to be all about the so-called "perfect body" and "beautiful looks". Men are very visual. I understand this well but I don't understand why I'm not like that. There's plenty of things I don't even understand about myself. But, I think of this like a car that has a fresh paint job. Just because it has a new paint job and is absolutely beautiful... Chances are good that it's still a worn out car underneath that paint job. I've seen many people buy a junk car because they thought it was so great with that new paint job.
As for me, I absolutely hate the words "chubby chaser". That's quite an insult. When I see a woman with a beautiful smile and a beautiful heart.. one who is truly caring and helpful and not out for the Free Ride... Well, that makes everything else about her soooo beautiful. Sadly enough and from my own experience... This trait seems to be quite hard to find anymore. And it's really gotten worse in just a few short years. In my opinion, I don't have to have a big woman and I don't have to have a small women. I'm just sick of all the pain and drama that comes from a horrible personality and want a woman who has a good heart. A helper and a lover. I do believe that the bigger women struggle to find men because of the stereotype garbage that comes from Hollywood television and commercials from our medical industries. People buy into this crap and it screws their brains up. Some of us can really step out and see the big picture though. I think that the bigger women probably would appreciate finding a man and taking care of him and keeping him around. But then the problem also is that men aren't perfect either. We can be self-centered pieces of crap, unfortunately just like women can be too. To quickly sum this all up.... I really wish things were like they used to be. When people knew how to love from the heart and not from the eyes. The days before the internet and the cell phone. The days when they enforced laws on what Hollywood could put on TV. The days when doctors cared about helping people and not just about how to make the most money. 😢
