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Should I be cautious at all that my younger 14 year old brother has a date with an 18 year old girl?

SW-User
This is gross, that girl is a pedophile and the fact that you’re asking the question in the manner you are makes me think this is some fantasy bullshit
@SW-User Tecnically, she’s an ephebophile.
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@RogueLoner You're right, hebephilia is "in between" pedophilia and ephebophilia. It's important to distinguish as the colloquial use of "pedophilia" to refer to adults attracted to anyone under age 18 is misleading.

Do you think I copied and pasted the word "ephebophile?"
Your bro might think he's hit the jackpot but that 18 year old is a predator that needs a slap from you
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@BeefySenpie How is she a predator? If I liked a 14 year old at 18, I'd wanna date them too.
@WendyLopez43 You’re a predator too :(
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
14 is a minor, 18 is legally considered an adult. There is your answer.
SW-User
That's illegal, and that girl honestly needs to be throat punched. You should be very concerned.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@SW-User He won't, he's too nervous about that.
SW-User
@WendyLopez43 I'd still keep an eye on her
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yeah, I will. I think she really likes him and didn't wanna wait 3 or 4 years to date him.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
He is a lucky boy indeed, friends can go on dates have a great time without there being anything more, let them enjoy their time
cd4259 · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 You know this how? Has she told you?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@cd4259 yes
cd4259 · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 pm me please
gdon39 · 41-45, M
My life history says you should pay attention. I was younger and my babysitter was six years older
Slade · 56-60, M
If they poon that could be statutory.

Have him control himself, and her. Seriously
Slade · 56-60, M
I'm in a state of shock that I am a voice of reason. Especially with pooning🥺
Frankie13 · 46-50, M
All I can say is I’m jealous of him
SW-User
@Frankie13 that's creepy.
Piper · 61-69, F
Yes, unless you know that the 18 year old girl is just being kind and agreeing to a "date" because your 14 year old brother has a crush on her or something. Otherwise, I'd certainly be concerned.
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Piper · 61-69, F
@RogueLoner Yes, as long it was just agreeing because it was something the minor wanted so much. Not to be confused with any kind of sexual relationship, to be clear, or anything but an innocent gesture.
legally at his age yes.. however when he is in his twentys.. four years is not that much.. check the laws in your state.. it might save him and the girl legal trouble.. just my thought
edited .. just flip around the genders and see how it sounds to you. 18 year old boy with a 14 year old girl.. see my point on this ... i would say no and have him wait till he is 18 and then who cares.. be safe
gdon39 · 41-45, M
He is 14 years old though. I’m not trying to be a jerk.
LandOfOz · 61-69, M
I think she needs to be cautious
monellla731 · 46-50, M
i would not worry
Repete · 61-69, M
Personally I would say that is between the woman the boy and his parents ( your parents) other than maybe letting your parents know how old she is , it has nothing to do with you.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Pretzel · 61-69, M
Yeah, it is something that could get her arrested if things processed. Normally the Romeo and Juliet exemptions don't cover more than a couple of years.
empanadas · 31-35, M
Yes, wtf is she doing with a 14 year old.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@empanadas the 14 year old would be treated like a god/goddess by their fellow classmates though
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 At what cost?
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