When you date someone...

Do you consciously (or subconsciously) think about what you offer, or "bring to the table "?
Or do you just go in hoping you will simply click/have fun?
I think I feel I dont bring that much to the table, so I get super nervous, and feel who would want someone with the anxiety I have?😢🌺💗

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Banksy83 · 41-45, M

(Bring to the table) Lady you overtthink too too much . Before leaving your apartment and meeting your acquaintance for the first time ,practise your laughing .Sit in front of your bedroom mirror and laugh quiety then laugh a bit louder, breathe deeply for a few minutes then let it all out laughing like a madman in an asylum for 5 to 10 minutes getting louder and really LOUDER all the the time watching yourself in the mirror .This will relieve any tensions you have. When on the date if you feel nervous , look the guy straight in the eyes and repeat the laughing you rehearsed in your bedroom really giving it out loud , if he leaves it means he wasnt meant or good enough for you.Good luck

If you get nervous on your date i hope you remember this advice

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Banksy83 So the loudness could distract my worries or fear thoughts..interesting, ty🌿

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

@Coralmist any tension/ nerves would just disappear. Try it now if you can, go into the bathroom and loudly laugh your head off. It creates good endorphins and blood rushes to your face giving you a glowing complexion

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

Its used in Yoga classes I know it works

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

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