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Do you buy a present for someone your dating?

It's been 4 months and we're not official.
It's probably been even less time since we see each other every other week. So really 2 months.
His birthdays the 10th and in all honesty Im not seeing him until maybe the 19th of November.
Do I buy him a gift?

My mums saying to me to wrap up the unopened glenfiddich that I have in the cupboard and give him a card since I'll never drink it and he likes to drink...
Mellowgirl
31-35, F
25 replies 67 views Nov 1, 2022
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CereBellum
I would give him something.
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SW-User
Well i would. And it wouldn't be recycled either.
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IWantANewLife · F
Yesssssss if you still want to keep dating that person. I mean why wouldnt you ? Unless you dont like them and in that case dont date them.
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Poppies · 61-69, F
I would give him a small gift.
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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
That every girl I ever liked whom I gifted something they never talked to me again. So I never gift anything to anyone. Nor to my sister and neither to my mom because I don't want to loose them.
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Gangstress · 41-45, F
I think its a nice idea. Why shouldn't you anyway. If you're fond of him it makes sense lol
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Gangstress Well I don't want to make the same mistakes I made in the past.
I've only done the gift giving thing with one person and he totally ruined my experience.
I know he's not the same person but they're born 8 days apart can you believe.
You know me and my star signs I don't want to trigger similar reactions.
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Gangstress · 41-45, F
@Mellowgirl yeh i get ya hum. Hmmmm then i would say maybe buy him a few drinks when you do meet up maybe?
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Gangstress Yea i could do that
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HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
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calicuz · 56-60, M
It depends. If you really like him, and you want to leave an impression, you might want to leave him a B-Day card on his door step.
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Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
You dont have to go crazy but you have to give him something
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
That sounds like a nice gift, actually. Yes, get him a birthday gift. It's thoughtful, and might help move things along, if that's what you want.
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger I wouldnt go as far as telling him I didn't buy it... Recently that's off
It I'd wrap it up.
I dunno though because he's not the kind of person that would like to drink alone...
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Mellowgirl That's an issue if you don't drink anymore. Does he have any other interests that might suggest a nice but not terribly expensive gift?
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger hmm. He smokes... Which he's trying to quit. Yes he likes films, festivals, clubbing.
Trainers. Clothes.
Fun experiences but not heights.
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Wyocowboy · M
I will take one anytime. Lol. I have no time limits.
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4meAndyou · F
I would give him a card and take him out for lunch.
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TexChik · F
Yes, it would be appropriate
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IamLara · FVIP
Do you
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@IamLara do you what?
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SW-User
@Mellowgirl I think he means do whatever you want
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V00doo
I would.
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