If you get invited out on a date and you don’t enjoy it…

i like going Dutch no matter how it goes with new potentials; in other words friends. it's easy enough with $ transfer apps. no need to get all romantical right away

Imma go dutch regardless, fuck it

Making me realize I've only been on a date once

I go Dutch if I was the one invited out and I was not having a good date.

If I am the invitee, I pay for both, unless the lady says she wants to go Dutch.

Some women have been interested but insisted on paying their way on a date due to be a new age woman. I say whatever makes you happy. But when I know it is a bad date, I pay my own way.

Never paid. Even when I've asked a man to leave lol. I haven't been on a date in years. Do whatever feels comfortable. Im definitely not paying if I had a bad time. Paying for my own misery..??? Rather stay home.

I rarely don't pick up the whole check. Not because I'm loaded, I wish, I just enjoy feeling generous.

I don't pay for dates lol

Yeah I pay for myself almost always anyway because I don't like them to feel like they're owed anything

Dutch

I always want to pay for myself. I don't in any way want to appear to be a taker and it sets the scene should anything else come from the meet up

I will offer to pay and consider it tuition, but I will be happy accept an offer to split

TIL that people abroad call "going dutch" what we call "the Roman way"

That’s pretty impressive behavior.

I offer to pay my share.

If I've asked someone out I am going to offer to pay even if it's obvious I or they did not like the date. If they offer to go Dutch I'll insist once more, and if they in turn insist on Dutch I will defer to them.

I feel like as the one to initiate the date I should be prepared to cover the cost of it.

If I was the one asked out... well, that hasn't quite happened yet for me to know what i would do. Though I'm pretty sure I'd at least offer to pay my own way at least once.

Dutch

I pay for everything unless the woman says otherwise. But no bad date ever for me. And I've been on quite a few. 🙂

Dutch

I always offered.