If you get invited out on a date and you don’t enjoy it…

Do you go Dutch or just have the person who invited you pay ?

I immediately pay for myself in those situations. So awkwarddddd 😬

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

If I've asked someone out I am going to offer to pay even if it's obvious I or they did not like the date. If they offer to go Dutch I'll insist once more, and if they in turn insist on Dutch I will defer to them.

I feel like as the one to initiate the date I should be prepared to cover the cost of it.

If I was the one asked out... well, that hasn't quite happened yet for me to know what i would do. Though I'm pretty sure I'd at least offer to pay my own way at least once.