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What’s a mans ideal first date

What do you want from a first date and what makes you ask a girl out ?
Ideal clothes for a first date ?
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
If weather allows, dont wear underwear, Ma'am, but stockings. And put on very red lipstick!
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@MissyChrissy ive checked her milky swells ... as well as pubics in the album... STILL i like your hugging kisses my darling chris missy my sweetheart
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@MissyChrissy i dont wear anything as my dangler is big and very uncontrollably horny.my missy.... erects as i hug and kiss you to spread your legs to accomodate
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@MissyChrissy havnt heard from you all night my darling missy...
Overtheknee75 · 46-50, MVIP
For a first date, somewhere you can chat get to know them better, have fun and a good laugh. If walking together important to look where you are going and not walk off the pavement and fall down an embankment as I did. Didn’t get a second date with that person 🤔
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Picnic or dinner. A sporting event or maybe go bowling.

And i would wear this wirhout a bra. Just jeans and a tank.

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BlueVeins · 22-25
We have a nice dinner of seitan wings and teriyaki sushi, bike along the coast for a few miles to the sound of waves crashing against the rocks. We watch the sunset together, we tie up some conservatives, throw them into the ocean, and then we go home to rearrange her organs. ❤️
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MaryJo1996 · 26-30, F
This sounds absolutely vile.
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
At least two glasses of red wine, at a new restaurant that serves nice food.
Tasteful but flirty attire and a cheerful attitude.
100% attention to our presence, which means minimal phone interaction.
Carissimi · F
I don’t believe I said such a thing. When, and in what context? @SW-User
SW-User
@Carissimi One of your post's, I specifically mentioned a date similar to what is mentioned here and you said I sounded cheap 😂
Carissimi · F
I must have been joking, or there was more to it. I know my values have changed from a younger age to an older age, so if it were from the perspective of a younger me, and someone asked me on a date, and I dressed up, and ended up walking in the park, then that would have been strange, to say the least. In those days, you didn’t ask to see someone just to walk or go for coffee. I suppose it’s an age thing, or maybe I’m more enlightened now. Who knows? 🤷‍♀️@SW-User
KA9ha · 31-35, M
first and final date where he takes you home for the final conclusion of the date..
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1. What does a guy want from a first date? Sex.
2. What makes a guy ask her out? Achieving objective no. 1 seems likely.
3. Ideal clothes? The ones that come off the easiest.

Still can't figure out why I don't get dates 🤔
Joannebr3 · 41-45, F
Your definitely more honest x@BizSuitStacy
@Joannebr3 I was kidding, but it hints at the truth. Guys ask women out because they're attracted to them. What a guy wants from a first date depends on the guy. For me, it's to see if there is a connection. What to wear depends on what you want to do.
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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
@Yulianna Awww... yes Miss. 🤭
Yulianna · 22-25, F
@MissyChrissy and don't call me miss...

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
@Yulianna Yes Yulianna, I am sorry. 🥺
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
A first date should give you an opportunity to talk so you can get to know each other. Somewhere, where you both feel relaxed. Perhaps start with a drink in a nice bar (pub for the Brits) then move onto somewhere to eat that you chose together. Easy enough to do with TripAdvisor to help.
What makes me ask a girl out, it has to start with physical attraction. Why do I find one girl attractive and another not, I really don't know.
The ideal clothes for a first date. I would prefer she wore something she was relaxed and comfortable in. Some girls like to cover up, others want to show off their assets, either is ok.
Eternity · 26-30, M
One where she expresses clearly discernible interest in us during and afterward to make us feel like our effort/investment is going to pay off in the near future.

Thats really all I want .

I've taken to doing preliminary dates before actual dates; basically we go to a park or some other public and free venue where we can talk and I can gauge her interest level.

If she's giving me aloof 'job interview' vibes then after we wrap up I most likely won't hit her up anymore after that because in my experience you'll just end up buying her free meals until you get tired of not getting any ass and then that will be a wash.

But if we are vibing and I sense chemistry and she seems to be into me then we can move on to going on actual dates.

Buy honestly these days I'm more into hook ups than dates. Just got out of a relationship and don't really want another until maybe my 30s.

Problem is most females aren't trying to give up any ass unless you make them think exclusivity is on the table.

It sucks to be deceptive, but it sucks worse to not get laid, so I do what I gotta 🤷🏽‍♂️.

I didn't make the rules to this game; I just play to win.
wuiop2 · 41-45
Everything boils down to personality. I prefer lots of conversation before a first date in order to establish emotional intimacy, then nothing past cuddling and heavy petting for a while. Sex can wait unless both parties are truly and consensually ready for it.

Ideal clothes would be whatever you wear every day - after all, I'm dating you, not what you nervously select from your wardrobe. :)
A nice, comfortable, charming restaurant or coffeehouse with good food and drinks. Low music so you can really hear your conversation. Privacy. A booth would be better instead of open tables.

Wear whatever is comfortable, is tasteful and expresses the inner you…
A nice chat is always a good start.
she has to have a sense of humor first. a nice dinner at a fine restaurant where we could talk and get to know each other. if all goes well a second date and then que serra, serra
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
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@Thevy29 that does sound like fun!
FatherTime · 61-69, M
dinner at my place and get to know each other. with sexy elegant cloths
Joannebr3 · 41-45, F
@FatherTime what sort of clothes ?
FatherTime · 61-69, M
@Joannebr3 a fine dress for the lady and I'll wear a nice shirt and vest
@FatherTime no pants for you?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
It’s always how a girl looks/dresses that would make me ask them out.
For a first date I just want to get on really well and talk.
Northwest · M
Why would I ask a woman out?

1. I thought she’s intelligent.

2. She’s available, as in she’s not in a monogamous relationship.

2. She seemed interested in me.

As long as she doesn’t show up in a Klingon outfit, I don’t really cares what she wears.

What I want from a first date?

1. Observe how she treats service staff.

2. Try to figure out if she’s all into herself.

3. Figure out if this is a one-date thing, or if we might have enough for a second date.
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
Be submissive and show your attributes, Ma'am. Many men like that, even if they say no in public.
Daveuk · 56-60, M
I would happily take this lady on a date and fuck and be happy to post afterwards.😈😈😈
Sjones13 · 41-45, M
Be bold and go with lots of cleavage and your belly button showing
Yulianna · 22-25, F
never go on a man's first date, it's like going on a pilot's first flight. he's got no experience, no idea what to do in emergency and is not unlikely to crash and burn.

the best you could hope for is a turbulent flight and a bumpy landing.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Yulianna pretty sure it was first date with a particular guy not the guy’s first date ever
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Sex after a cheap date
SW-User
Not able to answer the clothes question as entirely up to the woman! I like, hopefully, a nice easy connection, maybe some nice food, and if it has a nice spark a kiss to end the evening is a bonus!
SW-User
A bit of shyness with a bit of open nature. Her eyes and her voice should be appealing.

For a first date, anything but for second or third date, I would want her to deliver herself in tight leggings showing her curves.
Attraction will matter physically if I don't know them, but you might be surprised what I find attractive too. I love a woman confident, sensitive, caring and forward. It's a soft spot I have.
Carissimi · F
Reading these comments scares the life out of me. My last date was over 30-years ago. Times have changed ... a lot ... and it seems so complicated. I think I’ll just remain my old little hermit self.
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Obviously it depends on many things.

What is ideal first date for a man is that the woman is attractive and that she put the effort into looking attractive
Dacrowman · 70-79, M
What do I want from a girl if I ask her out a yes without laughing would be a good start. 😃
Ideal clothes depends on time of year and where we go 😜
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Someone who would beat me at mini golf. I'm shit at it. and if I won I would know she lost on purpose and that's not the sort of woman for me.
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Joannebr3 · 41-45, F
@quietwhispers101 I like your idea of a first date xx it sounds nice and romantic xxxx
Joannebr3 · 41-45, F
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Fairydust · F
@OldBrit

it’s an eye opener and brutal.
Men seem to think we like fish 🎣
I’ve seen a few packages too 📦😎

what’s that about lol 😂 reminds me of here.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
@Fairydust Well if showing your package off is the norm I'm definitely not going to get anywhere
Fairydust · F
@OldBrit
maybe some woman like that way of dating lol 😂

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OldBrit · 61-69, M
Blimey been over 40 years.

Just good conversation, chance to get to know her, enjoy her company
496sbc · 36-40, M
If she is really nice ro me and she has great legs. And maybe black pantyhose to
Ideal first date is art gallery — one can learn much about someone talking about art
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Depends on the girl, chatty girl dinner or pub or quiet girl cinema
Great chat..
She’s a sports fan.Important that😀
Just for her to talk to me and be open and honest
dimfok · 22-25, M
Being open minded and relaxed is the key.
AbusedNeglected · 36-40, M
Be interested in talking helps.
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Anything that isn't sitting around making small talk. We should be dressing in clothes we don't mind wrecking and doing stuff that got us interested in each other.

The fancy dates can come later
pack a lunch,get the old green army blanket ,,take her fishing,,you can learn a lot abut a person when fishing,,,,not cat fish,,
SW-User
Well as a loyal devoted Trump loving Murkan and longtime member of Pussy Grabbers Unite I mostly want to grab some pussy..
davej41 · 56-60, M
Drinks, dinner and hopefully a second date.
Joannebr3 · 41-45, F
Tips what to wear could be helpful xx
OldBrit · 61-69, M
@Joannebr3 look classy. But go with what you're comfortable in being uncomfortable will show through and make him think you're uncomfortable with him.
Sandcastler · 22-25, M
oh man so hard to answer this well
InstructHer · 56-60, M
Stockings always charm a man.

 
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