What’s a mans ideal first date

If weather allows, dont wear underwear, Ma'am, but stockings. And put on very red lipstick!

For a first date, somewhere you can chat get to know them better, have fun and a good laugh. If walking together important to look where you are going and not walk off the pavement and fall down an embankment as I did. Didn’t get a second date with that person 🤔

A bj

Picnic or dinner. A sporting event or maybe go bowling.

And i would wear this wirhout a bra. Just jeans and a tank.

At least two glasses of red wine, at a new restaurant that serves nice food.
Tasteful but flirty attire and a cheerful attitude.
100% attention to our presence, which means minimal phone interaction.

first and final date where he takes you home for the final conclusion of the date..

A first date should give you an opportunity to talk so you can get to know each other. Somewhere, where you both feel relaxed. Perhaps start with a drink in a nice bar (pub for the Brits) then move onto somewhere to eat that you chose together. Easy enough to do with TripAdvisor to help.
What makes me ask a girl out, it has to start with physical attraction. Why do I find one girl attractive and another not, I really don't know.
The ideal clothes for a first date. I would prefer she wore something she was relaxed and comfortable in. Some girls like to cover up, others want to show off their assets, either is ok.

One where she expresses clearly discernible interest in us during and afterward to make us feel like our effort/investment is going to pay off in the near future.

Thats really all I want .

I've taken to doing preliminary dates before actual dates; basically we go to a park or some other public and free venue where we can talk and I can gauge her interest level.

If she's giving me aloof 'job interview' vibes then after we wrap up I most likely won't hit her up anymore after that because in my experience you'll just end up buying her free meals until you get tired of not getting any ass and then that will be a wash.

But if we are vibing and I sense chemistry and she seems to be into me then we can move on to going on actual dates.

Buy honestly these days I'm more into hook ups than dates. Just got out of a relationship and don't really want another until maybe my 30s.

Problem is most females aren't trying to give up any ass unless you make them think exclusivity is on the table.

It sucks to be deceptive, but it sucks worse to not get laid, so I do what I gotta 🤷🏽‍♂️.

I didn't make the rules to this game; I just play to win.

A nice chat is always a good start.

A nice, comfortable, charming restaurant or coffeehouse with good food and drinks. Low music so you can really hear your conversation. Privacy. A booth would be better instead of open tables.

Wear whatever is comfortable, is tasteful and expresses the inner you…

1. What does a guy want from a first date? Sex.
2. What makes a guy ask her out? Achieving objective no. 1 seems likely.
3. Ideal clothes? The ones that come off the easiest.

Still can't figure out why I don't get dates 🤔

she has to have a sense of humor first. a nice dinner at a fine restaurant where we could talk and get to know each other. if all goes well a second date and then que serra, serra

Everything boils down to personality. I prefer lots of conversation before a first date in order to establish emotional intimacy, then nothing past cuddling and heavy petting for a while. Sex can wait unless both parties are truly and consensually ready for it.

Ideal clothes would be whatever you wear every day - after all, I'm dating you, not what you nervously select from your wardrobe. :)

We have a nice dinner of seitan wings and teriyaki sushi, bike along the coast for a few miles to the sound of waves crashing against the rocks. We watch the sunset together, we tie up some conservatives, throw them into the ocean, and then we go home to rearrange her organs. ❤️

It’s always how a girl looks/dresses that would make me ask them out.
For a first date I just want to get on really well and talk.

Be submissive and show your attributes, Ma'am. Many men like that, even if they say no in public.

Why would I ask a woman out?

1. I thought she’s intelligent.

2. She’s available, as in she’s not in a monogamous relationship.

2. She seemed interested in me.

As long as she doesn’t show up in a Klingon outfit, I don’t really cares what she wears.

What I want from a first date?

1. Observe how she treats service staff.

2. Try to figure out if she’s all into herself.

3. Figure out if this is a one-date thing, or if we might have enough for a second date.

Not able to answer the clothes question as entirely up to the woman! I like, hopefully, a nice easy connection, maybe some nice food, and if it has a nice spark a kiss to end the evening is a bonus!

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Reading these comments scares the life out of me. My last date was over 30-years ago. Times have changed ... a lot ... and it seems so complicated. I think I’ll just remain my old little hermit self.

Blimey been over 40 years.

Just good conversation, chance to get to know her, enjoy her company

Ideal first date is art gallery — one can learn much about someone talking about art

Attraction will matter physically if I don't know them, but you might be surprised what I find attractive too. I love a woman confident, sensitive, caring and forward. It's a soft spot I have.

Obviously it depends on many things.

What is ideal first date for a man is that the woman is attractive and that she put the effort into looking attractive

What do I want from a girl if I ask her out a yes without laughing would be a good start. 😃
Ideal clothes depends on time of year and where we go 😜

dinner at my place and get to know each other. with sexy elegant cloths

Being open minded and relaxed is the key.

Great chat..
She’s a sports fan.Important that😀

Just for her to talk to me and be open and honest

Be interested in talking helps.

Be bold and go with lots of cleavage and your belly button showing

never go on a man's first date, it's like going on a pilot's first flight. he's got no experience, no idea what to do in emergency and is not unlikely to crash and burn.

the best you could hope for is a turbulent flight and a bumpy landing.

Anything that isn't sitting around making small talk. We should be dressing in clothes we don't mind wrecking and doing stuff that got us interested in each other.

The fancy dates can come later

A bit of shyness with a bit of open nature. Her eyes and her voice should be appealing.

For a first date, anything but for second or third date, I would want her to deliver herself in tight leggings showing her curves.

pack a lunch,get the old green army blanket ,,take her fishing,,you can learn a lot abut a person when fishing,,,,not cat fish,,

Depends on the girl, chatty girl dinner or pub or quiet girl cinema

Drinks, dinner and hopefully a second date.

oh man so hard to answer this well

Tips what to wear could be helpful xx

In NYC should dress casual

Stockings always charm a man.

Sex after a cheap date

i unno lol

A promise for a second date

If she is really nice ro me and she has great legs. And maybe black pantyhose to