Any idea why he cut it off?

The other girl "gave it up" so he's going back for more.

Sure. I have a few ideas but do they really matter? They won’t be from him and because of that very little comfort, if any at all, will come from it. So instead here’s my idea of what you should do next.

Let it go.

Sometimes things just don’t pan out and there’s not always warning signs leading up to it to prepare you for the unraveling. Understanding for that leads to the acceptance of it and the much needed moving forward that’s needed. Life’s too short to spend it wondering why. In cases like this it can far too easily shift into a “I’m apparently not good enough” reasoning and no one is worth letting yourself become consumed by that.

I mean I have no idea what this guy's life is about or what you talked about with him but I have a hunch.


He might have something going on in his life he is afraid you will ghost him the minute he tells you. So he might be trying to save himself that pain.


Whether it be a single parent, or someone with a toxic family, a shady past or stigmatized struggles in their past they have moved on from. Most of these people like everyone else what someone to love them but are scared shitless of being judged or ghosted when the person knows their full story.


But I could also be totally off base.

Maybe he got back with an ex

Maybe he has a wife and was just playing you

better to find out now..... than find out later

Be thankful he let you know rather than just ghost you. You’ll have more dates like this than not. It’s like shopping for a house. You have to see many before deciding you found the one you want.

Guys are extremely finicky these days....

Just relax and scream out this four-letter word.......

NEXT

I know sometimes people behave in a weird way. I don't know maybe he is not feeling comfortable or something is bothering him. Who knows? But whatever is the reason, please understand that you're not the one for which he is doing this. You're a kind, gentle and caring soul. So, don't worry.

Be open. If it were meant to be, it will happen. Else, we are always here. We are your friends and will always support you. You're not alone. Never.

Maybe because guys can be idiots?

Chalk it up to a waste of time and move on to the next one 👌

1) He has another iron in the fire

2) Probably a million other reasons but I got a feeling its No. 1


Regardless…do you think it will get better…the guy isn’t opening up to you know…you think a few more dates will convince him you are the one?

Move on

Maybe there is something he doesn't like about you but he doesn't want to offend you by saying so directly.. either that or he is just a coward and thinks there is something about him that you wont like.. so he's bailing out

🤷🏻‍♀️ Hard to say. I don’t think him giving you an explanation would help. If he’s acting like this then I’m inclined to agree you aren’t suited though. You don’t want someone who plays games and refused to communicate.

This guy either met someone else or already had someone else add someone else maybe he got busted as she told him to tell her now that it's over or we're done and that's why you told you that

Women are masters at rejecting men with utter coldness and rudeness, so he is likely no match for you.

It hurts but you’re better off without. He was just pretending to like you.

You just move on because anything else is a waste of time ❤️

It could just be lady luck shining on you!

If it doesn’t click it doesn’t click for someone.

Sometimes,,,, beauty can be very intimidating

🌹