Any idea why he cut it off?

Had 2 dates with a guy & we seem to get on well, we were making plans for the following weekend, then he goes quiet & then texts me he feels we aren't suited.

Yes i know it may be as simple as he does feel we aren't suited or he's met someone else but there didn't seem to be any warning or any signs on my part that we weren't suited.... he won't tell me why he feels we aren't suited but any ideas why he just cut it off?

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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

Sure. I have a few ideas but do they really matter? They won’t be from him and because of that very little comfort, if any at all, will come from it. So instead here’s my idea of what you should do next.

Let it go.

Sometimes things just don’t pan out and there’s not always warning signs leading up to it to prepare you for the unraveling. Understanding for that leads to the acceptance of it and the much needed moving forward that’s needed. Life’s too short to spend it wondering why. In cases like this it can far too easily shift into a “I’m apparently not good enough” reasoning and no one is worth letting yourself become consumed by that.