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There's this chick who I was almost in a relationship with like half a year ago

She messaged me rn to say she misses me & she'll always remember our first date at the fair 🤔 it's frickin' midnight.

I know I'm bad at taking hints but I doubt she misses me. I get the feeling thats a booty call 😂😂
Curve ✋😅

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nedkelly · 61-69, M

How can you be almost in a relationship?

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@nedkelly because it was almost but never was 😂

smiler2012 · 56-60

@nedkelly 😆 cor blimey ned pity i never thought of that idea when i first met mrs smiler

Valerian · 100+, M

@ChiefJustWalks been there, but I was just 'convenient' and gave up when it dawned on me.

marsbar · F

I get that from guys too. Use your own hand. 😒 Lol

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marsbar · F

@Wol62 Not in so many words. Lol

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@marsbar yeah but most women don't dirty talk until there's already a connection & its known. When flirting with someone for the first time & trying to drop hints, the straightforwardness is kinda rare from women. It happens for sure, but I mostly find that its little hints that I typically miss 😅

marsbar · F

@ChiefJustWalks True that

TexChik · F

That's exactly what it is...or she's just learned she is pregnant and needs someone to blame it on! 😂

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@TexChik that would be baby daddy #3 in that case 😂

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

well tbh i don't always see things so black and white.
she could have had something going on, had someone else occupy her time that she thought she'd get on with better, or she wanted something to happen with you and you gave her the cold shoulder.
sometimes when people are drunk they contact who they really want to talk to the most, since inhibitions are gone.
If you did like her and you are still interested you could still make contact with her at a time you think is reasonable and respectful and ask her what's up.
meet and see where her head's at...
Just because she may offer sex (if that's what she does) doesn't mean you have to take it.
Part of being a decent a human being is also handling yourself with respect and credibility.
it doesn't hurt to offer a second chance under the right circumstances.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Mellowgirl huh? I don't still like her & I'm not still interested lol. It's a chill friendships still. We just weren't really compatible relationship-wise & we both kinda stopped talking without really saying it.
I don't plan on meeting her but thanks for putting so much thought into this

MellyMel22 · F

If you’re right, she sounds like a dirty skank 😳 God knows what she’s got if she does that to others 🤢

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MellyMel22 · F

@ChiefJustWalks Exactly! His baby ended up *born with HIV, but she is fine now. Her mom there was no saving.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@MellyMel22 that's so sad 😔 that makes me feel pissed off at the guy for causing that. I hope he teaches his child to be better than him. Personally, I could never cheat & one of the reasons is because I think about how I would feel if someone cheated on my daughter (I don't have one but I hope to someday). I'd wanna beat the dudes ass. I'd never teach my child to accept that behavior from any man

MellyMel22 · F

@ChiefJustWalks That’s b/c you’re a good man.

SW-User

I’m guilty cause I do message people at midnight or even later not because I want a booty call. I’m just a night person and during the day I’m usually very busy with life , work and other things. So late at night is when I have time to talk to people. I don’t know if that’s her case, but just tell her you’re in a relationship or block if she keeps messaging you , assuming you don’t want anything with her.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@SW-User that was the latest she's ever messaged me & on her 2nd text back, she told me we should get together again & I told her I'm with somebody else. So she told me good luck then said to hit her up whenever. Idk.. maybe I am just assuming but with the emoji's she used & whatnot, & me knowing how she is.. it definitely screamed "booty call" 😂
But in the past her booty calls came around 9 or 10pm so midnight was later than usual 🤔

Trust me I'm a night person too & I don't just assume any midnight texts are booty calls 😅 i see through people & just call it how I see it tbh

Foreverconfused · 56-60, F

It makes me sad to read this thread…If people think a booty call is the only reason people call each other at night. (Maybe it was a booty call but everyone is also assuming that’s what it was ) What does that say about the friendship? That there never was one?

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Foreverconfused trust me.. i know this chick so my assumption wasn't odd 😂 she used to hit me up last second on nights she was free & usually I was busy & had to say no but the times I did actually go out, it was chill but just sexual.
My assumption had a basis lol

Foreverconfused · 56-60, F

@ChiefJustWalks okay. Well if you know her because that’s how she is okay. I’m lucky one of my closest friends is gay :-) he don’t want no hook up :-) so we both get to enjoy our friendship

Classified · M

Would it be better if she was straightforward and told you she was horny? 😅

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ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Classified yeah 😌 my first long distance relationship ever.. but it's also the healthiest relationship I've ever had 🥹

Classified · M

@ChiefJustWalks You are freaking fortunate. She's super gorgeous and kind too. Best of wishes to you two. 😊

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Classified thank you sir 😌

Valerian · 100+, M

You should've kinda asked, what's the worst that could've happened? Her saying, "Nooo.", "Maybe?" Or "YES!"

LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M

You'll probably regret it later but go for it. YOLO!

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@LookingForTheSummer nah

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

And you have a problem with this because...?

Isthisit · F

Did you message back?

anythingoes477 · M

So ur point is?????? Message back the front door is unlocked.

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ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@anythingoes477 good thing I'm not you then

anythingoes477 · M

@ChiefJustWalks Amen to that.

CestManan · 46-50, F

@anythingoes477 Chief probably is not ready yet to risk having little chiefs running around.
I say he is wise for foregoing that woman. Nothing good would have come of it.

SW-User

I think you're right 👍🏻

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@SW-User I'm 98% sure I am 😌 I think ots funny some people are trying to give her the benefit of the doubt though 😅

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Glad to see you are in a better mood 💖

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