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How would you feel if the person you're dating did this?

They seem to want to set the pace of the relationship, dictate when you meet up, only want to text, never call, only voice note. Introduced you to friends and they're "second family" after 1 week of dating.
Tell you they're observing you and will give you a review in 3 months if you make it that far.
When you ask them about whether they're comfortable with both of you still seeing other people, they get emotional and say that it's been a few weeks.
But decide to readdress that conversation at the dinner table when you'd both been having a little to drink.
Then read into things suggesting that they feel like you're trying to place a label on the relationship because you joked (in reference to a scene you both laughed about in friends with moana and Ross) "so where is this going?"...
SW-User
they're observing you and will give you a review in 3 months if you make it that far
Yeaaa, nope! I would be outta there faster than a road runner being chased by the coyote
SW-User
@Iwillwait Bloody bonkers i say, ol' chap.
Iwillwait · M
@SW-User Mhmm. There's definitely a very shady side here.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@SW-User yuuuup
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
They observe me...hmm..interesting. I appreciate honesty but thank you, next one, please.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
Doesn’t sound good hun
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
A review???, say you have done a review but earlier and your kicking his ass to the curb
@Beautywithin yeah. I’m not something someone reviews. they should feel lucky they made my cut, because the vast majority do not.
What are you waiting for? Turn the page!
Northwest · M
Are you asking for a friend, or talking about someone you broke up with, because no one should be in this type of relationship?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest it's the guy I'm currently seeing
Northwest · M
@Mellowgirl Soon to be an ex?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest I think he's an ex...
He's been a bit hard to follow recently, he acts a bit adhdish time is really short for him. When he came to mine I needed to water my plants as I had forgotten I literally took out the step ladder and put my foot on the first step and he started calling for me. Even though I left him with the remote.
When I came back into the room all he wanted was for us to cuddle on the sofa.
Ugh!
Hes coming across rather babyish!
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
Such relationships are of no use. Simple!🙂

For me, a relationship means a couple can't live without each other. World and others are either secondary or of no meaning to them.🙂
This is going NOWHERE! You're wasting your time! He's not committed nor is he interested, men who are will not treat you this way! Don't say I told you so! Good luck!
antonioioio · 70-79, M
I think you ready know otherwise you would not have posted about it here 😀
He or she needs to told to go and have a running jump for themselves ❤️
He sounds like a terrible person to be involved with. I would personally cut ties ASAP. He’s not going to get any better.
All of the things you mentioned would be "red flags" to me, prompting me to say "Next" before I invested more time.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Threepio I guess I'm putting up with the I much. I really don't know what to expect anymore.. The calibre of guy seems so low. I mean you match, and they unmatch. The ones that do match start down this dom bull crap talk.
Some seem like catfishs.
The others start off acting like gentleman only to suddenly start revealing these really weird behaviours
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Wth is wrong with him ?! 3 month review?! Why is there a time scale
Id bail out. It seems very odd
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Gangstress I don't know... I thought it was just a little joke.
But he was being serious.
We've only been dating for a month.
And yes we've spent time at each others home but it's starting to feel like meet and go places he's only comfortable with.
So the example being going to a christening of his friend.
Now seems like perhaps it was an opportunity for him to "show me off" that was technically our second date.
I didn't hesitate as we were getting on. I didn't feel pressured. But with all of that to run a little joke I thought he'd laugh with me.
I mean it's too soon for me to ask where things are going!
He was inviting me to his friends wedding in July. I was just confirming that were on the same page about still dating others.
If he said he wanted to see how things go between us first then I would need to think about it.
I mean just a few weeks ago we were showing each other our matches on bumble and hinge. But now he's getting all weird about it.
The last few times we met up he siad he wanted for us to go out for a walk and then changed his mind last minute.
He asked if we could meet up this week up I said I wasn't sure due to health and now he's this conversation made things sour.
SW-User
Sounds too dangerous to me. Would probably slam the door in their faces
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I would definitely end things. None of that sounds healthy at all. Red flags for days.
RedDirtGirl · 46-50, F
Reviews? It all sounds so weird. You should get out of that relationship... 😳
SW-User
'bye. I've reviewed already and I am done'
Sounds like trouble.
496sbc · 36-40, M
I would feel left out and to not voice call or anything. Is so rude. So i guess they have to txt u when ur with them because they cant talk
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@496sbc he just voice notes instead of calling.

He said he works in a sen school but a part of me is feeling like he might be a bit delicate.
496sbc · 36-40, M
@Mellowgirl he should call. This voice note stuff is bull. He needs to step up if he likes u
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I would look for someone else
Lilnonames · F
They b kicked to the curb and I'd b driving away
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