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How would you feel if the person you're dating did this?

They seem to want to set the pace of the relationship, dictate when you meet up, only want to text, never call, only voice note. Introduced you to friends and they're "second family" after 1 week of dating.
Tell you they're observing you and will give you a review in 3 months if you make it that far.
When you ask them about whether they're comfortable with both of you still seeing other people, they get emotional and say that it's been a few weeks.
But decide to readdress that conversation at the dinner table when you'd both been having a little to drink.
Then read into things suggesting that they feel like you're trying to place a label on the relationship because you joked (in reference to a scene you both laughed about in friends with moana and Ross) "so where is this going?"...
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All of the things you mentioned would be "red flags" to me, prompting me to say "Next" before I invested more time.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Threepio I guess I'm putting up with the I much. I really don't know what to expect anymore.. The calibre of guy seems so low. I mean you match, and they unmatch. The ones that do match start down this dom bull crap talk.
Some seem like catfishs.
The others start off acting like gentleman only to suddenly start revealing these really weird behaviours