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How would you feel if the person you're dating did this?

They seem to want to set the pace of the relationship, dictate when you meet up, only want to text, never call, only voice note. Introduced you to friends and they're "second family" after 1 week of dating.
Tell you they're observing you and will give you a review in 3 months if you make it that far.
When you ask them about whether they're comfortable with both of you still seeing other people, they get emotional and say that it's been a few weeks.
But decide to readdress that conversation at the dinner table when you'd both been having a little to drink.
Then read into things suggesting that they feel like you're trying to place a label on the relationship because you joked (in reference to a scene you both laughed about in friends with moana and Ross) "so where is this going?"...
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Northwest · M
Are you asking for a friend, or talking about someone you broke up with, because no one should be in this type of relationship?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest it's the guy I'm currently seeing
Northwest · M
@Mellowgirl Soon to be an ex?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Northwest I think he's an ex...
He's been a bit hard to follow recently, he acts a bit adhdish time is really short for him. When he came to mine I needed to water my plants as I had forgotten I literally took out the step ladder and put my foot on the first step and he started calling for me. Even though I left him with the remote.
When I came back into the room all he wanted was for us to cuddle on the sofa.
Ugh!
Hes coming across rather babyish!