Men.. when you think about dating a woman...

Or falling in love etc...Do you think firstly about being her friend, developing a bond together, laughter etc, or...are you thinking about the dynamic of physical intimacy most?
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Honesty, please.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

I am a woman so I shall answer as one. I don't like when people direct questions to a specific gender either. It would be best to start out as a friend and to develop a bond as compared to physical intimacy first. Relationships are complex and sex isn't the best way to start, in my opinion. Does sex constitute trust, honesty, respect, etc? I doubt when sex is first and foremost.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@PoetryNEmotion Sex as a foundation for relationship is a fundamental flaw.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@zonavar68 I didn't say it was. I said it is possible to have both. If there is no sexual attraction and there is inadequate or unsatisfying sex and/or intimacy, it is flawed. I trust you know the difference between sex and intimacy? I speak from experience and that is what I know.