What do you think she meant?

I saw a woman I am dating today, and she said, "Sorry that I take your for granted." When I said "What do you mean? You don't.," she said, "That's what you think."

I could be reading too much into it, but it feels like she doesn't like me as a person. She likes company and physical contact, but not me.

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SW-User

Like you're there for her but she's not for you , she's not making the same effort as you are.
When they tell you those things, don't contradict them. Rather ask them why.

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ArminArlert · 22-25, M

@SW-User Of course. I didn't ask why, but I should have. Maybe I will next time I see her because I'm thinking about it a lot.

SW-User

@WaryWitchWandering true... We tend to make assumptions and only they know the answer

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@SW-User and sometimes even they don’t… I like to try to figure out why

Some people get mad if you start digging though. I do sometimes

Straylight · 31-35, F

I don’t know if it’s that serious. Likely she feel like she’s not giving you all she can and feels bad about it.

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ArminArlert · 22-25, M

@nightjourney Yeah, but nothing crazy. I brought us food sometimes and when she was sick with Covid, I delivered meds. But she didn't ask for either. I just did it.

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SW-User

It could literally mean anything, depending on what her beliefs and perceptions are. Only she would know.
How you feel about and around her though, listen to that. Regardless of what she says.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

It most likely means she feels like she should appreciate you more than she has in the past

Probably a good thing

eMortal · M

It is exactly what it is. She’s not matching the effort. Slow down, let her chase you a little. If she doesn’t, stop wasting your time and money.

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