What do you think she meant?

I saw a woman I am dating today, and she said, "Sorry that I take your for granted." When I said "What do you mean? You don't.," she said, "That's what you think."

I could be reading too much into it, but it feels like she doesn't like me as a person. She likes company and physical contact, but not me.

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SW-User

Like you're there for her but she's not for you , she's not making the same effort as you are.
When they tell you those things, don't contradict them. Rather ask them why.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@SW-User a simple “why do you feel that way?” Can lead to many discoveries for both people in the connection

ArminArlert · 22-25, M

@SW-User Of course. I didn't ask why, but I should have. Maybe I will next time I see her because I'm thinking about it a lot.

SW-User

@WaryWitchWandering true... We tend to make assumptions and only they know the answer

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@SW-User and sometimes even they don’t… I like to try to figure out why

Some people get mad if you start digging though. I do sometimes