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Can someone dislike me just because I’m a tall female?

I’ve been mocked, commented and been criticized for being a big, large young lady. I used to be slender before I gained so much weight during puberty. I remember being 165 in grade 6 or 7th and then after that…..BOOM!!! I’ve gained so much weight! I was 5’9 in 6th grade and 5’10 in 7th. I’ve been 5’11” 3/4 since I was 13. Kids though I was the teacher and I got called out for slouching. My dad would criticize me for slouching and sternly told me to stand up straight and be a lady! Even my own family (not everyone) commented on how tall I am and how big my feet are. I was left out because I was the tallest and biggest girl. I got picked on but never beat up because of my size. Boys never wanted to be seen by me because it would be too embarrassing to date a tall and enormous girl. Ouch that was harsh. One time a middle age woman looked shocked and said to her husband, “OMG honey that girl is HUGE!! 😳”
And they walked off quickly. I could HEAR her and that hurt. Why are we hated so much? Sometimes I wish I was 5’6 or even 5’4”
Even tall men don’t like big tall women.

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AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

Many men, Myself included like tall curvy women. And I’m 6’4”
Don’t even sweat it. He’s out there.

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AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl I like what I like. Being tall is a genetic blessing and it’s rare. Rarity equals value .

Alabama · 100+, F

@AthrillatheHunt being born in Tennessee is a blessing from Nature. You have a body that nourishes nature instead of polluting it with methane.

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

@Alabama had the worst coffee in my life in Bristol Tennessee.

dakotaviper · 56-60, M

Any man who doesn't want to be with you is intimidated by you. They cannot handle someone who can look them in the eye. My brother's daughter stands 6 feet, wears a size 11 shoe, and loves to wear 3" to 4" heels. She's studying Law in college. She once had a guy tell her that he cannot stand tall women because he cannot look down and admire their boobs.

Stand up straight and be the strong woman that your father believes you to be. Don't worry about idiots, since that's all they'll ever be.

And just remember Heidi Klum, Tyra Banks, Charlize Theron, Elle McPhearson, and many others are tall powerful women.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@dakotaviper DANG!!! He said that to her face?! Jeez! I can’t stand guys like that. I swear most guys no offense are very brutally blunt when it comes to women and their sizes. Guys have no filter. How did she react to that?

I do like Charlize Theron.

Slade · 56-60, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Melania Trump is 6'0". She was next to me in an elevator and I had maybe 1" on her. I was hoping the elevator got stuck

Gangstress · 41-45, F

My female work colleague is over 6 foot. I get it.
Shes on the dating scene but keeps meeting small men.
She just wants someone taller lol. But the tall guys want short girls.
Shes lovely and very pretty and im like gosh i didnt realise this was so bad

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Gangstress Well frankly I don’t blame her. Not trying to sound shallow but is tall women want to be held like the average and smaller women but it’s impossible. One guys flat out told me that his hates tall women because it’s bad enough looking eye to eye and being the same height as him, he wants to admire a woman looking down in her eyes and even her boobs. Ouch that’s harsh. Guys are so brutally blunt.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@LaylaTheTallGirl i honestly get it completely. And thats why i feel bad. Her dates cant even be honest and tell her why but its obvious.

Im sorry x

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Gangstress Thanks. I don’t even pay attention to him anymore. He’s rude

redredred · M

I’m 6’2” and my first wife was 5’10”. It was fine and our three daughters are all 5’10”. They’ve thanked me for their height many times.

LilithoftheTrees

This is heartbreaking to read. So much pressure is placed on women to fit into some kind of ideal of what the specific society dictates is appropriate. It makes me angry that your whole persona is judged because of your height. Please try to remember that not everyone thinks that way even if those experiences have affected you. Don’t let other peoples meanness define who you are. Show them the finger and embrace your length, like an Amazonian woman!

BohemianBabe · M

Someone can dislike you for whatever reason they want. That's just life.

Personally, I love tall women. Y'all make great dommes.

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@BohemianBabe MEANIE!!!!!! My older siblings even said said and told me to get used to it it’s life. Even my best friends told me to get a life. Why is life so brutally honest that hurts our feelings?

BohemianBabe · M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Well I wouldn't tell you to get a life. I think it's understandable to feel sad over this. But really, there's nothing else you can do. Life's not fair and you can't force people to like you. I've had people stop liking me when they find out I'm bisexual or atheist. All you can do is accept it and move on.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@BohemianBabe YOU NEED TO STOP SAYING THAT!!!! It’s rude to not like someone because of their size! It isn’t my fault! Don’t ever answer my post again!!!!

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

Oh lord, you again? Do you have to use Lisa Simpson as your avatar?

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@SumKindaMunster Who the hell is Big Dana? I hope you’re weekend rots in hell because I sure as hell wrong rescue you!

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Bye sweetie. 😘

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@SumKindaMunster blocked

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

I dont understand why people would judge you like that

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@vetguy1991 It really hurts. I mean I know we can’t make anyone like us which is unfair but I shouldn’t be disliked just because I’m a tall young woman.

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Dont worry someone will like you as you are, I am only 5ft 3 as a man and I have done ok just be confident 👍

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