Can someone dislike me just because I’m a tall female?

I’ve been mocked, commented and been criticized for being a big, large young lady. I used to be slender before I gained so much weight during puberty. I remember being 165 in grade 6 or 7th and then after that…..BOOM!!! I’ve gained so much weight! I was 5’9 in 6th grade and 5’10 in 7th. I’ve been 5’11” 3/4 since I was 13. Kids though I was the teacher and I got called out for slouching. My dad would criticize me for slouching and sternly told me to stand up straight and be a lady! Even my own family (not everyone) commented on how tall I am and how big my feet are. I was left out because I was the tallest and biggest girl. I got picked on but never beat up because of my size. Boys never wanted to be seen by me because it would be too embarrassing to date a tall and enormous girl. Ouch that was harsh. One time a middle age woman looked shocked and said to her husband, “OMG honey that girl is HUGE!! 😳”
And they walked off quickly. I could HEAR her and that hurt. Why are we hated so much? Sometimes I wish I was 5’6 or even 5’4”
Even tall men don’t like big tall women.

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BohemianBabe · M

Someone can dislike you for whatever reason they want. That's just life.

Personally, I love tall women. Y'all make great dommes.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@BohemianBabe We’ll Thats not fair! They can’t just dislike me whatsoever. Now if I was very annoying and very rude then THATS a good reason!

BohemianBabe · M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Life's not fair. Some people dislike others for stupid reasons and you can't force them to change.
People have disliked me for plenty of stupid reasons. Haters gonna hate.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@BohemianBabe MEANIE!!!!!! My older siblings even said said and told me to get used to it it’s life. Even my best friends told me to get a life. Why is life so brutally honest that hurts our feelings?

BohemianBabe · M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Well I wouldn't tell you to get a life. I think it's understandable to feel sad over this. But really, there's nothing else you can do. Life's not fair and you can't force people to like you. I've had people stop liking me when they find out I'm bisexual or atheist. All you can do is accept it and move on.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@BohemianBabe YOU NEED TO STOP SAYING THAT!!!! It’s rude to not like someone because of their size! It isn’t my fault! Don’t ever answer my post again!!!!