Do people actually keep track of how many people they slept with?!

You should've asked, "You mean today? Or this week?"

Boys do

when they got in bed with Sara, they never slept

Keep track no, but it's easy when it's 1 lol

Oh well, that could take some time... lol

ONS - just one person a very long time ago. Proper relationships - 1 x 15 yrs, 1 x 5 yrs. 1 x 6 months. So that's four people in 53 years of life. If you work it out based on not being interested in women, sex, relationships until well into my 20's, that's an average of 1 per 8 years and frequency of Actual Sex with the three people I've had relationships with would still be infrequent (like once a month average). To me that's not a problem since the hyper-connected love people seem to think is normal never happens for me.

You should have asked: “ Does it matter to you?”

Bring out the 🧮

Tell him like two or three Max. That’s what they want to hear. The truth is none of their business

I think that's a fair question don't want someone who has been with 30 people of something

Some of us keep track because the number is not so high as to be onerous to remember.

Having a sense of someone else's life experience helps us build a mental image of who that person is, what that person expects, what her touchstones in life are. Do we stack up? Are we competing against an image we have no chance of approaching?

Also, most guys want to know if you're up for a threesome.

Men always lie something to do with trying to look cool

I don't. I had to think even though it's a small number.

Yes most people do keep track but i guess some people dont

Did you tell him

Its very few so easy for me to keep track 🤷‍♂️

Oh that’s easy . One. He’s a good’n . I am very lucky ! 😊

Most do. But if you have a long list you might need to do a little self evaluation or get therapy. 🙂

I had a girlfriend ask how many women i had been with. This was 40 years ago and I think the answer was 17. I asked how many guys she had been with. She said she didn't know, somewhere between 100 and 200.

I know who I had sex with, and when asked for the number I wrote down the names and added up the number.
Haven't had any sex in recent years, so the number hasn't changed and I remember the number.....but it isn't like I was keeping a running tally all along.

Yes I have a wall with their pictures n condoms they used n nudes they sent me to memorialise it

I do keep track, not to brag or to feel anything, it's just my life and I like to remember it. So far at least?

Umm not but it's probably about 10 all up - who cares?

Almost everyone that I've ever known has kept track because most people find it important. But my number can be counted on one hand and I wish that I could remove 2 or 3 of them.

I don't have a string with knots or carve a notch on the bedpost, The first part of my adult life, I was in the military and never seemed to be anywhere for more than a month or so, it would be difficult to list partners and impossible to remember names for some. A number of times it was more of a "hey, we are here and there isn't anything else to do, let's have sex."

Probably most people could count them up, I guess.

I haven't been with that many so it is not difficult.

It's a big 5.0 for me whoop Tilly doo dilly

It's clearly none of his business how many people you slept with I think this is a high school question. what he should be asking is if you use protection and when is the last time you had an STD/HIV test if you both are potentially going to be intimate!

When I was younger. I did the same thing. Now that I'm older and widowed. I have a girlfriend and I've never asked her nor do I care. She shows me a lot of attention and that's all I care about.

Me too - I've a rough estimate. Like you though many were definite escapes and only torture or likely imprisonment would make me confirm our coupling.

No

I do., Let's see .....one. That wasn't hard. My wife, on the other hand, keeps remembering those she forgot, so she doesn't keep count.

There's not much to keep track of when it comes to me .. 5 different women ever, and it's been almost 25 yrs since I last did.

lol

I think your answer says a lot; if you can immediately say a specific number, it is probably low-ish.

Yes, some do.

It's a personal preference.

If I include me loads

Well I know my number

Idk 🤷🏻‍♂️ I don't see why anyone would