Would you support your daughter if she decided to do onlyfans?
Would you allow and if you don't how will you prevent it. Not only only fans but any adult platform like sugarbook or SA?
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IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
Whatawebsite · M
MaybelChong · 46-50, F
@Whatawebsite I doubt they will even have kids
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I wouldn’t disown her or bash her, but I’d be frank about the likely short-term and long-term ramifications. Of course, I believe those conversations about the realities of the sex industry in 2023 really should be happening in small doses long before they’re old enough to have an OF
MaybelChong · 46-50, F
@WhateverWorks Absolutely, it's a total must for 2023. I've witnessed some of my high school female friends getting exploited big time in college. It's heartbreaking to see them left with nothing but regret when they're no longer desired.
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@AlvinoMartins sex is not sacred in my eyes. Human trafficking doesn’t involve consent. Sex work is consensual. Try again.
Grown women know what we are doing. We aren’t idiots. They aren’t exploiting anyone who chooses that life.
Grown women know what we are doing. We aren’t idiots. They aren’t exploiting anyone who chooses that life.
johnsreenevasan · 36-40
@666Maggotz Some trafficking involve consent where it's due to poverty and circumstances. I think @AlvinoMartins is saying that things that seem to be destructive to society and the family institution should be neglected. Given how addicting and influencing social media has been their positive potrayal of adult sides like only fans, phub and sugarbook might influence young generation.
@johnsreenevasan anything consensual is fine with me 🤷♀️ I’m okay with prostitution. I also don’t care about society or the family structure either so you’re both arguing with the wrong person.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@MrGoodbar what is the positive here. Becoming a prostitute in sugarbook or porn actress in onlyfans has it benefits you say?
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@wildbill83 Exactly my point. " because I said so" or " because god is watching", will only push them to learn what are these platforms and how they can benefit from it. The modern world has null this working strat.
bookerdana · M
BohemianBabe · M
MaybelChong · 46-50, F
@BohemianBabe Incest?
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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
I wouldn't support it but we'd still have the same relationship because I wouldn't treat her differently.
WaafaS · 26-30, F
@Queendragonfly That's kind of shallow. I'm sorry to say.
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AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@jshm2 In regards to sugarbook I would say many will be tempted as all you have to do is sell your soul/body. What type of quality indoctrination (other than religion) do we have, to keep kids safe.
JestAJester · 31-35, M
The whole thing is fucked up. Women with only fans diminish their value drastically. Classy women is where its at. Those are the type of women heavily sought after
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@JestAJester When I say this I'm being called a boomer, or a bigot. Onlyfans is literally doing porn without physical contact and sugarbook is premium prostitutions
JestAJester · 31-35, M
@AlvinoMartins boomer? I mean you arent wrong. Peoples standards are lacking if they wanna be sexual deviants, let them. Itll come back to bite them in the ass
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@JestAJester I see in most cases it's too late to come back and get your life together. And most just stay there because of it. Many feedbacks from people within that adult industry are not hyped up or made viral.
AndrewF · 51-55
I've been using Sugarbook and OnlyFans, and honestly, that's my personal choice. But when it comes to my daughter, I wouldn't want her to be a part of it. You know why? Because I believe it could affect how she's perceived by others. When people see you all over those platforms, they might not value you as much, and it could lead to them not taking a serious relationship with you. I mean, it's just my perspective, and if my daughter wanted a more intimate, traditional relationship, I'd talk to her about this reasoning. Of course, everyone's goals are different, and if someone on Sugarbook or OnlyFans has those same intentions, it might be a bit challenging for them to achieve. Just sharing my thoughts!
Ynotisay · M
Wouldn't raise a child that would want to go down that road. For either financial or emotional reasons. Not a morality thing. A better options thing.
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@Ynotisay I would argue that no one raised a child to be exploited in such way. Sometimes I'm curious what is the triggering factor?
Ynotisay · M
@AlvinoMartins It's a good point. In this case, I'm not sure it's exploitation though because it's an individual choice. One that people come to for a lot of reasons. But I do think it's something that can be proactively eliminated. Giving kids a sense of self-worth, confidence and more meaningful options is the call. A lot of kids are left to their own devices online and they grow up with values that have been formed by social media. Parents have to be pro-active there. Triggers might be money or just a need to be seen which often coincides with insecurity or a lack of self-worth.
minxy · 46-50, F
I'd find it odd that she would tell me something like that. It seems like something she wouldn't want to tell her parents.
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@minxy trust me, the worst is when you get to know not by her.
minxy · 46-50, F
@AlvinoMartins Well, yeah. That wasn't said so it was easy to assume she told you.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Being 18 does not make you an adult in most cases. I think there are a lot of late teens who are going to regret some things they did when they are 35. Tattoos' will be a common regret for them.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
depends on her age, under 18, I'm still mostly responsible for her
over 18, she needs to start taking most of the responsibility, and if that what gets her bills paid, I'm okay with it.
over 18, she needs to start taking most of the responsibility, and if that what gets her bills paid, I'm okay with it.
Freeranger · M
Never. You can still love your kids but absolutely detest the choices....and those choices themselves are on many occasions, the ones that come back to bite them on the ass. As a parent, you train your kid(s) up with certain values, but when they attain adult status, they have to fly off in to the world and make their collective ways in the world. Many make poor choices. What I wonder in this question is ultimately, whether or not, they learn from such choices. I don't think they lead to good endings.
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@Freeranger Totally! And the tricky part is, by the time they realize their mistakes, it could be too late. They might be deep in it and unable to turn back. It's like their shot at a normal life slips away. How often you see an ex sugarbook getting her life back together(as what she dreamed of in her youth).
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
EmeryWaterman2002 · 36-40, M
Similar to my question i was asking if any ladies was inspired to become a camgirl from watching iCarly growing up.. 📹📱
Uhhh. NO! I wouldn't encourage it, but there is probably NOTHING I can do to stop her!
wafi8 · 46-50, M
@AlvinoMartins I would say we have minimal control over them in modern times. If after al the healthy indoctrination you have done to them, and they still decide to sell their ass in sugarbook or only fans then you have tried your best. Pray that they repent some day.
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
If she was if an age where my consent was required, the answer is NO!!
If she grown and on her own, that’s for her to worry about.
If she grown and on her own, that’s for her to worry about.
Torsten · 36-40, M
if i had a daughter and she did that, i would consider that as me failing as a parent.
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@Torsten Me too. It's like society frowns upon furthering away our family from stuff like OnlyFans and Sugarbook, making it hard to speak up. Without being all "do this, don't do that"?( don't want to create the curiosity). What is the best way to fight off social media influence on only fans/sugarbook/adult dating apps.
No , if I had a daughter I would highly discourage her from doing anything like that.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I would support her but would never look at the pics. 😱
AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@DearAmbellina2113 aren't you worried on the impacts it would have on her?
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
I will throw her out the window
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
Will I support? No
HannahSky · F
No
ExperienceDLT · M
That would be disappointing
Spoiledbrat · F
No
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M
Since it would be a police matter, preventing it should be fairly easy. At least, it should be easy to close the barn door after the horse has left.
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AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@fishescycle You know, parenting is just part of the equation. In this digital world, kids soak up info from school, friends, and the web. They stumble upon things that seem validating, cool, or controversial, and that gets them attention. No matter how well we raise them, their surroundings can still shape their choices. It's like a whole other world out there!
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AlvinoMartins · 26-30
@Nitedoc What will be your attempt to make her stop. It's as if all they do have to be accepted. Where do we draw the line.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@AlvinoMartins Good question!