why women from usa always expect men to pay for everything?

Times change, but the basis is your ability to provide. If you can’t handle a simple date financially, why should she trust her future on you?

Granted, that’s an oversimplification, but it’s based on reality. Paying has absolutely zero to do with sex. She owes you nothing.

Fight it all you want, but your energy is best focused on being confident, having fun and garnering trust.

If money is that tight, a woman isn’t your problem. You need a better job.